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Learn how setting a goal can lead to you obtaining it.
By Iguana "When a man does not know what harbor he is making for, no wind is the right wind." These words, attributed to a first century Roman philosopher, point to a truism that for one to make progress in whatever area of life, goals are essential.
Sure, almost every man who uses penis enlargement exercises has them, just look at their signature: Goal: 9"X7" or Goal 8"X6", etc. But, what can help us reach our goals? Why even set a goal? Why do so many give up and throw in the towel before reaching their goal? Examining these questions can help us to stay focused and motivated for the long run.
Identify Your Motives
You may already have it clear in mind but stop and ask yourself, "Why am I here?" "Why do I want a larger penis?"
Is it because of ridicule or embarrassment at some point in life? Is it the desire to better please your mate? Is it for bragging rights at the gym? Whatever your motivation you need to keep it clear in mind. Why? Because this is where you will go when discouraged.
Strong Desire a MustFor our goals to become a reality, we must have a strong desire to achieve them. What will help us to develop such an intense desire? Meditate on on reaching your objective.
Visualize yourself at 9"X6" or wherever you want to be. How will you look? How will it feel? Imagine the deep sense of satisfaction, the pride of accomplishment. Think back to your motives. Was it a comment by an insensitive person that undermined your confidence? Imagine what that person might say now. How would the situation would unfold with you at your new size? Meditation on achieving your goal is mandatory if you are to stay focused and committed.
Association with others who have reached a certain goal can also create in us a desire to attain it. Speak with those who have reached their goal. Ask questions; how did they do it? What kept them motivated? What obstacles did they have to overcome? When you get discouraged, go back and read encouraging posts from the big gainers on penis enlargement forums.
Above all, don't hesitate to ask for advice or help. After all that's what the forums are here for.
Committing Your Goals to Writing Can Help An abstract idea takes on clarity and form when we choose words to express it. Don't look at your goal at just a number. After all, it takes much more than writing a number on a piece of paper to commit to transforming your penis to a new size. When things are written down, they make a deep impression on the mind and heart. Keep a log of your workouts or a journal. Record positive and/or negative PIs. It is helpful to commit our goals and the strategy for reaching them to paper. It can also be helpful to identify the areas we need to become knowledgeable in, the equipment we may need, and the individuals who can help and support us. |
