Some goals may initially appear formidable. I have heaord it said, "when it comes to penis size an inch might as well be a mile." That's why it is important to breakdown a large goal into smaller benchmarks. If you are 5" EL now and it is your desire to be 8", three inches seems like a long way off.
If you gain 1/8" the first month you may conclude at this rate you will never reach your goal. Instead of looking way down the road and feeling your goal may be impossible, set small goals. For the time-being, forget your long term goal.
Which seems more attainable 3" or 1/2"? Well, of course 1/2". Make 1/2" your 6 month goal. Focus on gaining the first 1/8" and that 1/8" only. Once you gain 1/8" celebrate, reward yourself. Then refocus and recommit. Your next goal is 1/8" more. If you reach 1/2" in less than 6 months then fantastic! The key is to set small obtainable goals that are realistic.
Nothing Measured, Nothing Gained
Regularly measuring our progress is essential. A word of caution here: many guys want to swing to extremes in this aspect. They either measure everyday or twice a year. Both of these extremes are counter-productive. Why? Well common sense tells us morphing a body part into something that nature didn't give us takes time. It doesn't happen overnight. Measuring too frequent will only lead to discouragement. The opposite end of the spectrum self-defeating also; not measuring often enough.
I have heard stories of guys waiting for 6 months to measure only to find out they had gained absolutely nothing! Imagine someone on a diet and not weighing in for 6 months! What if the diet is not effective? What if they are consuming too many calories?
The same is true of penis enlargement, don't waste months on an ineffective routine by not monitoring progress. Measuring will not stop your penis from growing, nor will it make it grow faster. But, other than sight and feel, it is the only way to guage your progress. As a rule of thumb, every two weeks or even once a month is a happy medium.
Determination and Persistence Needed
Despite our having well-laid plans and a strong desire to carry them out, some goals remain unattainable. If you are 4" EL and you set a goal of 11" EL, you are going to walk away a disappointed man someday. Not that I'm saying that 11" from 4" is an impossible goal but only that it is HIGHLY unlikely and ultimately a setup for failure. Set realistic goals. You can always set new ones once you obtain them.
In our pursuit of our PE goals, we may experience set backs. For example, poor health or family obligations may place some goals beyond our reach. Rather than giving up, we must
review, reevaluate, and readjust. When obstacles arise, we need to stretch (no pun intended) forward with determination and persistence. Above all, never, never, never, never, never ever give up!!
Is it all worth it in the end? When you reach your goal, let me know!
