[HotRod]

Welcome to the forum.

I would suggest taking a step back and doing some more reading. Get Remek's book. You seem to have a lot of questions and I can't address them all.

The jelq technique you are using is the one I use. It's also referred to as the "overhand" technique because the palm is facing down/out. I find that I get a better grip near the base. It's standard for my workout.

As for the piercing questions. I just don't know. I mean if I were you, I would be questioning my decision and trying to find out what would happen if I let it grow shut. The way my mind works at my advanced age, I would be seeing a urologist about this one. Would it go back to normal or could there be scar tissue that would be unpleasant? The frenulum is a penis hot spot and I wouldn't personally want a hole through there. Of course body piercings are a matter of personal aesthetic choices, and it's up to you ultimately.