Good questions, Rockstar. Welcome to The Gym, by the way.
1) How long does it take to see results? There's really no telling. It's variable between men. It largely depends on if you run into bumps in the road (as you already have), how often you PE, if you PE properly, genetics, etc. That said, some men see results in a a few weeks time, others only see results after months and months of hard work.
A good resource on this subject is the PE survey:
The Penis Enlargement Gym - Summary of the Penis Enlargement Survey Results
2) Splitting your workouts up isn't a bad idea. Not so much because it helps with PE gains (you'll get different opinions on this -- some believe it helps, some don't), but because it helps keep your mind fresh. In the later stages of PE, a workout can take a long time. Splitting it up throughout the day keeps the workouts fairly short.
Hope this helps.