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Hey guys, I know some of us here have problems with the female sex, and just sex in general, or should i say, getting sex.. lol
so i just wanted to share my personal experience with you guys, and hopefully it helps

i had an extremely tough time with girls , and one day i was just so fed up with being alone that i made my mind up to change that, at any cost

the first thing i did... give up porno completely
you would be surprised how much motivation it gives you to approach a female
also you masturbate alot less, thus, higher quality erections which in turn gives you more confidence

the second thing i did... forced myself to enter situations i did not feel comfortable with
whether its a conversation, or dancing, or just maintaining eye contact with a girl, it gets easier every time you do it
start with girls you do not necissarily find attractive, and work your way up to the super model type
fake it till you make it...

the third thing i did... stopped downing myself
i know how depressing it can get when your all alone, day after day, night after night,
and its human nature to start a depressive spiral inwards, but you must stop that and think positive
no matter what you look like, how u dress, whatever, some one out there will love you for who you are

the fourth thing i did.. confidence
confidence is extremely sexy to a girl, and if you lack it,
fake it.. believe me, soon enough you will be confident
when i used to have problems with this, i would think to myself, "this girl isnt gonna like me anyways, so fuck her,"
and once the possibilty of her being yours is gone, so is your nervousness about looking like a loser

the fifth thing.. most importantly... be yourself
i know you hear this alot, everyone says it, but no one explains
by this i mean, dont agree with her just to agree, dont go somewhere just because she wants to go, dont appologize if your not actually sorry,
dont bend over... your the man, you set the pace, the place, and the situation

never be afraid to lose a girl, because if she leaves, then it was not ment to be,
i know its hard to let go of any opportunity when you havnt had many, but when one door closes, another opens
and dont chase pussy, dont make your goal to get laid, dont make your goal to make her your girl, dont make your goal anything
other than getting to know the girl, and things will progress by themselves

also.. take care of your appearance...
its not about name brands, or your watch, or your car.. although these help
the most important thing... look clean
its that simple

these are just a few things that have helped me, and hopefully it helps a bit
i know ive left out a bunch of things so if any of you other guys could fill them in,
we would all appreciate it..