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Old 05-18-2009   #17 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Lazy 8 View Post
I've only been doing PE for about a month, but I think I'm seeing indications that I'll be off the blue pill before long. My EQ is at 10 these days when I'm working manually (and EQ11 with the morning wood!), but when my wife and I are having sex, I have some residual performance anxiety that will cause me to lose the EQ in mid-stroke and then the session is over. I still take the pill, but lower dosage seems to be working just fine. Some day I'll be able to spend all that V money on something else!
You realize that your ED is in your head- that's an important step towards total recovery. Now you just have to learn to let nature take over. Are you sincerely doing your best to focus on your wife and not on the fear?

A bit of advice that may help- try not ejaculating for awhile and focus only on activities that don't cause you anxiety. If possible, reserve your next ejaculation for intercourse. After a few days, the build up will be so intense that you'll likely be too sexually aroused to focus on the irrational fear.
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