eman,
I often agree with you: Many men make it way to complicated. I think the reason for this is that there's so much different advice out there, and a beginner is often faced with the question: Who's advice should I follow? New guys need solid advice on what to do in not only the beginning but in the advance stages too. I hope to help accomplish that.
BTW, you are already part of the 3 inch club, at least in my book

2.2" in length and 1.6" in girth. You're close to the 4 inch club!!!