What lubricant to use? Hey guys, I found this site about 2 weeks ago and I have started doing the stretches and kegels. I haven't started jelqing because I am not sure what to use. I do my stretches in the shower after warming up, but I'm afraid of buying a lubricant that my wife would notice. Is it terribly wrong to just not use soap? I have searched around and pretty much every site recommends not to for various reasons, but is it really that bad? If the answer is a definite yes, then what should I do to get around my wife finding out? All helping is appreciated. Thanks |