Slanker: You're story is similar to mine when I first learned about all of this stuff. You'll come overcome your problems, and here's why:
- You have determination
- You're not afraid to learn (about PE, about Kegels, about multiple orgasms)
- You have a great resource: Forums and other men to talk to
I definitely think your ED is psychological for the most part, and also from a weak PC muscle. I suggest masturbating frequently using the multiple orgasmic man techniques and building up your PC muscle via Kegels. Also, if your main goal of PE is hardness, make sure you get your jelqs in there.