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Originally Posted by hanging4big

Hey thanks alot. I just have a couple of questions for you?

has this technique worked for others or you?

This technique has worked for others.... but more important, it has worked for me. I can't really say I "invented" the technique, as I just combined the ideas and theories of many PE fixes and "multi orgasmic" books.

I don't think I emphasized a few of the important points. Basically, the reason you are masturbating/ having sex daily is to allow your penis (and your brain) to get use to the fact that you don't have to ejaculate. . . This works tenfold if you minimize your ejaculations -- and thus, why I recommend ejaculating only two times a week.

Remember, your brain is trained on quick shooting mode. You have to change it. And these techniques, combined with the stop/start technique are the only way I have found to effectively work for me. Also, I didn't emphasize the stop/start technique either (also known as ballooning). When you masturbate, be sure to balloon. Use some of the combined techniques you already know. You might even want to do some reading. (The Multi-Orgasmic Man is a good book).

Also, I'm sure, after your problem is fixed, you can ejaculate much more if you want. But you probably won't want to. I find that if I hold in my ejaculations, I have a lot more energy... This is especially prevalent if I wait a while (i.e. 4 - 10 days).

Originally Posted by hangin

-does this technique CURE PE?

It did for me . But curing PE, especially life-long PE, takes time. No matter what route you take. You have to commit.

-During the week of masturbation every day for a full week do you want me to masturbate with stop and start technique or just a regular usually under 2min masturbation?

I'm glad you asked. Definitely stop/start (balloon). Try to make it to twenty minutes without ejaculating. This may be hard at first, but it will be easy in time. Once you stop ejaculating all together, you can go for 20 minutes and then stop (without blowing your load). Soon, you can learn multiple orgasms . . .

-Also when you say "Then slowly dwinndle it down to where you're masturbating/ having sex daily, but only ejaculating 2 times max"- So your saying hear that i should masturbate daily (everyday) but only ejaculate twice? And if that's so what about the other days masturbating? Just don't ejaculate at all on those days, but masterbate??

Exactly. Masturbate/ Have sex daily, but only ejaculate twice a week. You're teaching your body that ejaculation isn't the primary goal.

I know you said with a girl would be better , but i have been in alot of embarressing moments that i really don't want to put myself in again until i have cured my problem. So i decided to put the women aside for awhile and accomplish this on my own until i feel ready.

This is absolutely understandable. You can surely wait for the girl until you have perfected everything on your own. Then you can start practicing with the female of your choice

Hope this helps. Also, have you tried any breathing techniques or moving your sexual energy throughout your body?