The PE Secret?

[remek]

Many guys jump into PE thinking it should be kept a secret (once they found out about it, of course). This is typically known as the fight club mentality -- i.e. you never talk about fight club.

I find that this desire to keep PE a secret is often built in our roots. We want the biggest penis, and that's why we are here. If PE is mainstream, then the workload required to have a bigger penis than everyone else would be much more, presumably. Although this is an understandable fear, I believe it to be untrue. The amount of PE needed to be done for the average dick size to go up .25" would be tremendous.

My question is this: Do you think PE should go mainstream. Why or Why not?

Also, would you tell anyone (or have you told) about PE? This includes both males and females.





Also, I'm curious Dust. It seems you kind-of have your house PE-rigged.

[Dustpan]

Remek,

Yes, PE should be public knowledge and talked about between male and female. I have told my wife about what I have done with PEing over the last 18 months and she is supportive with that.

In my house I have a exercise room but its not only for PEing, also other exercises, weight lifting bench, barbells, curling bars and 550 lbs of weights on different weight stands. I have put some extra things in there for my PEing routine, hooks and pulleys and ropes for stretching exercises. I myself haven't talked to anyone outside the PEing family at the Gym, maybe I haven't found the right time to talk about it. I was brought up to the point that you don't talk about your penis size.

[quik4life]

I disagree. I don't think PE should be for public knowledge. I have two reasons:

1) Most guys don't have "our" mentality. If you bring up the word penis, they either joke about it or call you a fag. And I believe this goes for all guys, regardless of age. There is a certain maturity that comes with PE and not everone is mature enough for PE.

2) It would take the mystery and brotherhood away from PE. Just knowing about PE makes me feel part of a brotherhood. A lot of PEers are guys with small penises who (I'm making a big assumption here) have self confidence issues. I think that having the knowledge of PE and others to help and support their efforts to increase the size and health of their penis is something special - if you take that away from them, then they are back to square one.

Of course, you have your PEers who already start big and want to grow a third leg. These are the guys that usually post the most, show their pictures and try crazy PE experiments to make their already huge penis even bigger. If you think that what I just said was a bunch of BS, then just look at ThundersPlace. They have 60,000 members, yet it is the same majority doing the posting in the threads. There is usually only 1% on at a given time, and it's usually always the same people. This shows you two things: 1) PE doesn't work for everybody, since those who have gaine would probably post to boast about their gains, or 2) even anonymously, people don't want to talk about their penises or PE in general.

Personally, I have a lot of self confidence. Trying not to sound cocky, but I believe myself to be a pretty decent looking individual, decently in shape (maybe 5-10 pounds overweight, but I"m working on it), intelligent, quick witted and all my friends think I"m funny. They only thing I'm not confident in is the organ between my legs.

I can see myself being the type of person who, when I do achieve my 8 x 6 cock, to brag about it, yet mutually tell those who I believe to have small penises, about PE.

But do I want these people to know about PE while I still have my pathetic 5.75 x 4.25 inch penis - hell no!

[ALL4HER]

Hey there, First post.

I'm kind of out in the open... Deep inside I want noone to know. Not even you guys!!! But, I really know that is selfish of me. And being selfish isn't want life is about.

[Dustpan]

Originally Posted by ALL4HER

Hey there, First post.

I'm kind of out in the open... Deep inside I want noone to know. Not even you guys!!! But, I really know that is selfish of me. And being selfish isn't want life is about.

Hey ALL4her, I was there once when I started with the PE routine, but I found that it was easy to talk to Guys that are doing the samething your doing.

[remek]

All4,

Welcome to the Gym. As Dustpan said, you're feeling are completely understandable. If I had to take a guess, I'd bet that you are somewhat new to PE.

I find that most (not all, but most), veterans kind of come to terms with their size after so many years. Once you've been doing this for a while -- and gain -- you realize that penis size isn't a big issue anymore. I honestly believe that most of us dwell on our size so much because we feel we can't change it. And once we realize that we can change it, everything becomes less dramatic.

Perhaps this is why you, quick4life, are still on the PE secret wagon (not that I blame you). You haven't gained, and in your eyes, you still can't change your size. So you sure as hell don't want anyone else to gain. If PE goes mainstream, the average size might be bumped up a few milimeters (which would definitely be a big downfall for you, if your size is still the same).

Moreover, this is probably why guys like Dustpan don't care anymore about keeping PE a secret. Dust, you know that you can gain.

Just some ideas. Keep em' coming guys! I love these conversations

[remek]

Originally Posted by quick

This shows you two things: 1) PE doesn't work for everybody, since those who have gaine would probably post to boast about their gains, or 2) even anonymously, people don't want to talk about their penises or PE in general.

Quick, you see, I completely disagree. I believe that the guys who really try, and who really don't gain, come onto the forums and tell everyone about it. Take you, for instance. Can you imagine doing all your hardwork and just never posting about it?

All those countless hours gone to waste? I don't think so. Or atleast I hope not. Most guys who put their heart and soul into PE, and don't gain, complain about it. Why aren't I gaining? What can I do? etc.

[Dustpan]

Quick,
I have come to realization that there are guy that have tryed for months and haven't gained anything. That is no reason to give up trying, maybe you might have to change your routine around some.

[ALL4HER]

remek and Dust, thanks for the welcome

Yea, I know my initial thoughts are just my selfishness. . . I really think they will change in time. Thanks for the headds up though

[remek]

You're welcome for the welcome