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trynagain · 11-05-2007, 05:00 PM

hey guys, couple ?'s. I have been trying to stretch in the shower because it's convienent but am having some problems. I wanted to make sure I am doing it right. Am i supposed to grab RIGHT behing my head, basically so when I stretch I almost am grabbing the head? Because otherwise it feels like I am just stretching the skin and it's kind of painful. This way the head is kind of elevated and stops the slipping. Is this correct?

Another question i had was, what effects does masturbation have on PE? I try not to masturbate on days I do PE, but sometimes i can't help it

Dustpan · 11-05-2007, 05:36 PM

trynagain

Are you cut or uncut? You don't have to grab directly behind the head, you can grab some of the shaft also.

trynagain · 11-05-2007, 07:26 PM

im circumsized if that' what you mean. and when i do that what your saying, that's what im saying is it stretches the skin and kinda irrtating/painful. When i grab the head i actually feel what I belive to be a "ligiment stretch" actually like a stretching inside the penis not stretching the skin. if that makes sense?

remek · 11-06-2007, 12:09 PM

trynagain: I wouldn't grab the head if I were you. It's the most delicate part of your body, and thus the last part you want to damage. Try using a gripping aide, such as rubber gloves or baby powder. Also, as Dust suggested, try gripping your entire shaft. You can even wrap your entire fist around it. Really make sure you have a hold of the inner parts of the penis (without pulling too hard... You don't need to use extreme intensity for it to work, especially in the beginning).

trynagain · 11-06-2007, 01:59 PM

allright guys, thanks for your help! I did try using a towel the other day and it seemed to work a little better, but still was kind of irritating on the skin. Is that "ligiment" stretch what I want, right? Where I can feel the inside of the penis stretching not the skin on the outside. what about the masturbation question? sometimes I have to relieve some stress does it effect PE at all?

Dustpan · 11-06-2007, 08:27 PM

I believe that masturbation doesn't hinder your gains, but some guys do believe that it does. I guess that there are time that it will happen when you are jelqing your penis because, you're in a way stimulating yourself.

remek · 11-07-2007, 02:25 AM

trynagain: I wouldn't worry too much about "what you feel" while stretching just yet. For now, stick with stretching in all directions, as it will help you maximize not only your ligament gains but all length gains. Also, if you cause any pain, you're stretching too hard.

trynagain · 11-08-2007, 02:36 PM

i have never felt pain from stretching, just the pain of irritation from pulling the skin. it's more "irritating" not what I would consider "pain" if that makes sense

remek · 11-09-2007, 08:59 AM

I figured that, but it's worth reminding. A lot of guys get caught up in stretching as hard as they possibly can . . . and this isn't necessary for growth. Hell, pulling too hard can stop growth from occurring all together.