Insecurity? - Page 2

Yeap · 12-12-2007, 06:39 PM

yea im not doign this for her at all im doing this for myself. i have never been completely satisfied with myself. Im doing this for me. thanks for the input guys

kwmass · 12-13-2007, 10:20 AM

Well,

I don't know about other guys, but I not very insecure in 'general' life, but when it comes to women I am more insecue. The fact is indeed that I have a 'smaller' penis than most other men.
And my experience is that it is important for a lot of women. They say they don't care, but I always know that it is a lie. The advantage of a bigger penis is first of all a practical issue. With a bigger penis you can do a lot more positions easily. And you can reach more with more ease. It doens't flop out that easy and you can make longer thrusts into you women. So the friction lasts a little longer, when moving in and out. And so does the stimulation of the vagina.

And there is this thing in Biology that they call super..something (I don't remember exactly), which states that animals and humans have the tendancy to go for the 'biggest' thing they can get. In an experiment I saw that with birds when they put a slightly bigger egg in the nest, the bird will start to incubate that egg first. And man go for bigger breast. And there are many more examples I cannot think of right know.

This is the way I see it. And a long time ago I had some kind of discovery that was very unplesant for me, but it confirmed the fact that a women preferes a bigger penis. My wife was once raped. That was terrible enough. And my wife was of course devasted by this. So was I. But very long afterwarts this event, she told me he was very large. She never had seen someone as large as this motherfucker. And I saw that, apart from hating him and herself, she was somehow still amazed by this fact. She always sees it as a terrible shock in her life, and thinking of it makes her puke. But still, I know that big dick left somewhat of an imprint on her that is hard to describe. That is what hurts me the most I think. She always said I was 'perfect'. But when we have sex I know that a bigger penis would make her enjoy it even more. She simply does not want to hurt me. I see it in her eyes. And the sex is quite good nonetheless, but still, it can be better.

I also notices women like it when you 'shoot' alot of cum. Because when my wife is hot, she really enjoys it if I didn't have sex for say 3 days, and than we have sex. So I can cum al lot more. I know she likes it. Back in the days when we used a condom, she sneaky always checked 'how much' there was in it. And I noticed this with other girls as well.

I'am not saying you should feel insecure if you are small though. I live with it. But still, when you can improve you do it.

Yeap · 12-13-2007, 11:40 AM

im am terrible sorry to hear what happened with your wife. That must have been an awful experience to hear from her.

kwmass · 12-17-2007, 03:53 AM

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im am terrible sorry to hear what happened with your wife. That must have been an awful experience to hear from her.

yes it was. But it was a long time ago now. So everything is OK again.
It affected our sex-life back then, but slowly it all came back to 'normal'. slowly means like 2 years.

remek · 12-17-2007, 11:01 PM

Sorry to hear about your troubles, kwmass. Did they ever catch the bastard?

You say your wife was slightly amazed by the bigger penis; have you told her about your PE? If so, how has she reacted to it (positively, negatively, etc)?

Ayoz · 12-17-2007, 11:14 PM

Sorry to hear about that kwmass. It is good though that you guyz still has the ability to have sexual activity.

Good luck with the PEing and we all hope for the best

kwmass · 12-18-2007, 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by remek

Sorry to hear about your troubles, kwmass. Did they ever catch the bastard?

You say your wife was slightly amazed by the bigger penis; have you told her about your PE? If so, how has she reacted to it (positively, negatively, etc)?

No, they never caught him.

No I've not told her about my PE. She always says I'm just right...and when I say I want a bigger one, she probably think I'm nuts. And besides that, she won't believe it can be done. She probably thinks it's some kind of fairy tale.

But when I'am growing a bit, and we can do alot more positions easily I think she would enjoy it and then I can tell her. But The main reason I did not tell her, is because I want to see if she notices if my penis is getting bigger. If she notices it one day, I know it is really bigger, and I'm not imagining it. This way I have an unbiased measuring system hahah.

Perok · 12-18-2007, 07:04 PM

My wife was an escort in college about 15 years ago, yep I know...... I know. No one knows that really but me, now tell me I don't occasionally have security issues.
On the other hand I used to obsess about my other girlfriend's former boyfriends. I don't have that problem now, as I just assume she slept with everyone (LOL). Which believe it or not, is actually easier to deal with.

She tells me I'm the thickest (and I didn't realize it to recently, but I feel blessed about that), however she once mentioned a black basketball player she slept with who was "really big"- she doesn't know I remember that, but of course I do. My penis is around normal length, but knowing her background I want to standout- so yep, I'm insecure too....

For a long time, I didn't believe PE was possible, now it's my motivation. Forget the "experts" who say penis size doesn't matter- it matters to me!!!

since 12/02/07
Starting
EL 5 3/4
EG 6 1/4
Goal
EL 8 (though I'll celebrate 6 1/2"!)
EW 6 1/2

Yeap · 12-18-2007, 07:27 PM

wow man i commend you for being able to deal with your wifes background. but looking at your starting stats you go have a pretty extreme girth and honestly women dont realize it but girth is way more important than length

remek · 12-19-2007, 03:04 AM

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Originally Posted by kwmass

No, they never caught him.

Sorry to hear about that, KW. But as they say, what goes around comes around. He'll get his some day.

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Originally Posted by kwmass

If she notices it one day, I know it is really bigger, and I'm not imagining it. This way I have an unbiased measuring system hahah.

The comments from the wife really is the best measuring stick. The "you're getting bigger" comments can never get old