Newb with some questions and concerns.

Jelqnewb · 03-22-2008, 10:13 PM

Hello! I'm new at this! This is embarrassing, but I'm 5 inches. There, I said it! I'm 18 and if I can do something about it, I'm going to. Is age on my side as far as speed and elasticity go?I don't understand one thing though, if it works wouldn't EVERYONE be doing it?

I haven't measured my girth, but I'm happy with it. I'd be ecstatic if I could be 7 inches (I think I could cry), but of course more is always better. Another thing I'd like is a larger head in proportion to my penis. When fully erect, my head seems... lazy. Like it's not motivated. I'd like it to be fat and hard. Actually, when I jelq, I'd like my head to be more like that! Are my above goals realistic?

The reason I joined, actually, was to ask a question about piercings. I have a frenum piercing, and didn't know if this would affect it. Naturally I take it out when I'm "training". I pierced it myself in the 8th grade (stupid), got infected and healed up to be a ZERO! gauge. That's huge. Luckily for me, it looks great (Although I wish it was the gauge I meant it to be, it looks fine), as if I had intended for it to be a zero gauge. My frenum isn't really thin because of this, since I pierced it deeper to begin with. I normally wear a 6 gauge steel captive bead ring, but sometimes a 4 gauge titanium CBR. I didn't know if my piercing would matter as long as I took the ring out.

OH! This isn't really applicable, but I have a circumcision scar under my frenum on the shaft, and it's about the size of a quarter. It's like the doctor did a sloppy job, and the skin doesn't "fit" well in the area like the rest of it. Like it healed unevenly and the skin is like trying to fit two different puzzle pieces together. The skin is rougher and thicker there, and I don't like it. It's not uncomfortable, I'm just not happy with it. I've got a prescription for Retin-A (The acid form of vitamin A) for my face (acne); could I apply it to my scar to help lessen it? It's used for stretch marks and increases collagen in the dermis. It's also used for aged skin (wrinkles) and sun damage. It increases the skin turnover rate, and since it increases thinning of the skin (You're not supposed to wax with it lol) I thought this would help a LOT. It makes sense that it would, doesn't it?

Jelqnewb · 03-23-2008, 09:59 AM

I was also wondering if, instead of using one hand and then the other, then the other hand and then the other, can I just use one hand and do 50, then use the other and do 50 ? That seems a lot easier. Another thing that seems easier is jelqing with my palm faced out instead of toward my body. Is this OK?

What does it mean when the opening to your urethra is swollen? It surprised me, actually. It looked like it had "lips"! It was swollen open a little bit, too. After massaging, it went back to normal. Also, how many red dots are normal and how many aren't?

In the beginners 90 day routine, it says "do 10 stretches in a BIG circle to the left and 10 to the right holding the pull." What does that mean exactly? I know what stretching to the left and doing 25 kegals means, but the next step is the above and I don't know what that means. Especially the circle part.

After I do that (once I find out what it is lol) I do the same thing to the right, up, down, and forward positions, right?

HotRod · 03-24-2008, 12:26 PM

Welcome to the forum.

I would suggest taking a step back and doing some more reading. Get Remek's book. You seem to have a lot of questions and I can't address them all.

The jelq technique you are using is the one I use. It's also referred to as the "overhand" technique because the palm is facing down/out. I find that I get a better grip near the base. It's standard for my workout.

As for the piercing questions. I just don't know. I mean if I were you, I would be questioning my decision and trying to find out what would happen if I let it grow shut. The way my mind works at my advanced age, I would be seeing a urologist about this one. Would it go back to normal or could there be scar tissue that would be unpleasant? The frenulum is a penis hot spot and I wouldn't personally want a hole through there. Of course body piercings are a matter of personal aesthetic choices, and it's up to you ultimately.

kingpole · 03-24-2008, 02:14 PM

It is entirely possible to grow you penis to 7" inches and beyond, i should know i did it. It takes consistency and patients and very slow jelqs!

JonPop · 03-24-2008, 03:41 PM

That was some very good advice to Jelqnewb, HotRod. Tried to add to your rep, but wouldn't access. But, rep point for ya anyway. JP