help a newbie out =D

luvs2meatspin · 03-30-2008, 10:28 AM

Hey guys! I have been reading through the site the past couple of days, and I had my first go at PE last night. I have a few questions that I think you guys may be able to give me some advice on. I am a complete newbie at this, so go easy on me =D

1st question: Ok, so basically, im 19, and uncut. what I was wondering is that during the basic stretching after warmup, I would grab hold of the skin under the head of the penis, but the second I would start to stretch, it would roll over the head and my hand would simply slip off lol. the only way around this that I can see is to hold the skin literally directly under the glans, but this squeezes the head a bit and im pretty sure this isnt the correct way to do it.

2nd question is: My foreskin covers my entire penis head when flaccid, and when 100% erect it can roll over and cover most of the head. my frenulum is slightly too short, although this doesnt cause any discomfort and can retract fully when flaccid, it cant retract fully when erect; it can go all the way over the penis head but kinda sits under the glans of the head (it doesnt get stuck there, its the frenulum thats the problem, I dont have a tight foreskin) , so if anything, I have ever so slightly too much foreskin.
Now onto the question. the jelqing motion feels like an exercise for stretching the skin on the penis, and I know its an exercise for girth, but does it stretch the foreskin? because it feels like it may, and I DO NOT want this =D.

3rd question: I think due to the fact that I dont roll the foreskin as far down as it can go before I masturbate, my hand is usually further up on the shaft, and im guessing, if it isnt genetics, that this is starting to shape it like the 'baseball bat' thing I hear you guys talk about.
I cant imagine that correcting this masturbation technique, or starting to jelq would help, as I imagine that e.g. if my penis girth explands by 3% evenly over the penis, it will still retain the baseball bat shape, but will be just a little bigger girth-wise.
so im assuming to counter this would be to exercise the base of the penis differently. would this work? for instance, jelqing only the base of the penis, or some variation of the Flaccid Bend technique. any thoughts?
(i know you have another post on this, but there is nothing conclusive on it)

so yeah, I hope I described everything in enough detail for you to understand what im on about!

any help would be appreciated,

cheers

remek · 03-30-2008, 08:44 PM

Welcome to the Gym, luvs!

Here's my advice,

Question 1: You may need to either:

Grip a little tighter
Use a stretching aide such as baby powder or grip-like gloves
Grip further down the shaft (such as mid shaft)

Question 2: Jelqing stretches the entire penis, including the skin. Of course, for your penis to get bigger your skin must get bigger too.

Just make sure you are gripping tight enough that your jelqing the tissues within the penis, and not just the skin (on the other hand, don't grip so hard that you hurt yourself; finding the happy median comes with time).

Question 3: You have a good handle on what you're talking about here. Both (focusing the jelq on the base and doing the flaccid bend with a focus on the base) might work in helping fix the baseball bat effect. The key is to make sure you don't just focus on the top half, or that will surely worsen the problem.

Hope this helps,
rem

garglechapper · 03-30-2008, 09:22 PM

Hey meatspin (nice name bwahaha)

About your third question - I have a kind of big foreskin and masturbate with my hand over the glans and the top of the shaft like you, and I don't have any baseball bat effect at all, in fact my shaft thins towards the glans. So that would imply that you can just enjoy masturbating any way you want and not worry about it

But still I would keep an eye on it just to make sure.

GC

luvs2meatspin · 03-31-2008, 08:01 AM

hey guys, i really appreciate you taking the time to respond to my questions.

i had my first attempt at dry jelqing last night, by doing it in to seperate stages; from pelvic bone to mid shaft, then from mid shaft to glans. this felt pretty comfortble and at some stages a little too good =D

anyway, ill keep you guys posted, and over the months we'll see how things progress

alrite, cheers lads