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04-27-2008, 07:07 PM
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Rep Power: 5  | porn desentisization how bad can it be? Sometimes when I am feeling low I watch porn to edge, and when I am not in the mood to pe, I use porn to gain a full erection for manual clamping.
How bad can this be? I have heard stories of people losing erections because they have become desentisized. How much porn would I have to watch? I guess I should try and refrain as much as I can from using porn huh? So addictive though. |
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04-27-2008, 10:12 PM
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Rep Power: 4  | I think that's kind of a myth.
And you couldn't become desensitized to the point that you couldn't gain it back without taking a little break from porn.
The body works in cycles, sometimes you're more horny, sometimes less. Sometimes porn will turn you on, sometimes... meh...
I'd worry more about the clamps desensitizing your penis. How is that anyways? I've always been fascinated with clamping. |
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04-28-2008, 07:33 AM
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Rep Power: 5  | How would clamps desentisize the penis? Thats good news about the porn. Although I am going to start edging without porn and not ejaculating. |
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04-28-2008, 09:24 AM
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Rep Power: 4   | Hooray For Porn! Clamping done properly will not desensitize the penis. Although in the above post the guy was talking about using his hand vs an actual Cable Clamp. If you want to know more about clamping with a CC: MyNewSize™*P.E. Forums :: Index Register as a free member, and you will have access to the instructional vids by myself over there in the Clamping Forum.
Back on the original topic....I've never found porn to "desensitize" me. In fact, I have MORE sex due to porn. I have a regular partner though. I love the female body. Porn is just "icing on the cake" per se. I'm a 'horn dog' and my girl catches me in public checking out other women, but understands that I'm JUST looking. We rent movies together. I do enjoy using porn during girth sessions, because it IS easier to maintain a constant, higher erection level with visual stimulation. I use a 'torrent' program called Utorrent (Free) µTorrent - The Lightweight and Efficient BitTorrent Client and I get my torrent files (PORN) from a site like: Pure TnA :: Home Page I'm sure there are others, but it's my personal favorite. Full length movies, as well as short clips like you might find on redtube.com...but usually higher quality and without the spam adds. Damn, I sound like I work for these sites. |
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04-28-2008, 05:29 PM
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Rep Power: 4  | Right - manual clamping. I missed that word "manual".
Thanks for the link, stillwantmore. |
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04-28-2008, 08:12 PM
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Rep Power: 2  | I use porn regularly. I'm at university, and hey, its lonely ok, don’t judge! Anyway, I also use it for PE. It just makes the whole thing more enjoyable. I was thinking about being desensitized from porn, but surely if you are still attracted to the opposite sex (or same sex if that's your thing) but cant get a woody from your usual source of stimulation, that more to do with erectile dysfunction, right?
And if getting desensitized is a common thing, porn stars would be in a world of trouble!
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04-29-2008, 05:15 AM
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Rep Power: 0  | Well, porn must be okay to watch. Since almost everyone watches it I guess....and with everyone I mean males. Although I think it's becoming more and more accepted for females to watch porn also.
So yes, I watch porn too.... from the i-net of course... torrents. Also some newsgroups...
anyway, I don't think it desensitizes me, it turns me on. My wife doens't know I watch it though, she doesn't really approve that sort of thing. She hates it when I watch other more beautiful (in her eyes) women. But she forgets I wanna fuck her only harder when I watch porn, and thats what she really wants....me to fuck her hard. (she never says so, but I know she likes it). Women also have a thing for public sex... turns them on greatly. Fucking on the beach, or somewhere out in the open.
In a womens mind:
Porn = bad;
public sex = okay. (even better when caught!)
but that's not what this thread is about. Anyway its my experience. |
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04-29-2008, 10:10 AM
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Rep Power: 3  | It's not always the porn itself that causes problems, but the masturbation while watching porn. The main culprit behind this problem is masturbating with too tight a grip- which can happen if you're prone to getting very excited while watching porn.
Here are a few tips-
Avoid masturbating. If you're going to masturbate, use a very light grip.
Try not ejaculating for a few days. By the time you have sex again, you'll feel ready to explode.
To speed things up, you can practice doing reverse Stop and Starts where instead of trying to prolong your session, you try to orgasm as fast as possible. You'll also want to use as loose a grip as possible to lower your penis' sensory threshold.
If you feel that the porn itself is causing your problems, the simplest solution would be to stop watching porn and try channeling that erotic energy towards your partner instead. |
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05-06-2008, 02:29 PM
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Rep Power: 0  | I'm a borderline porn addict, I can waste 3 hours in front of the computer... and you can feel desensitized..
that said, like he mentioned above, wait 2 days and an old lady in tight pants walking down the street can get me excited again-
I wouldn't worry about it, as long as your still out trying to get the real thing. |
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