Weird Edging Experience

RIB2211 · 11-30-2008

So I've heard a lot of people on here talk about being able to prevent themselves from ejaculating. As of late, I've come to the conclusion that I can too (almost, anyway). I can take myself to a PONR, keep going through that, stop my hand motions, and kegal very hard. My penis throbs as it normally would during an ejaculation, but nothing comes out, save maybe a tiny drop.

So am I preventing a full-blown ejaculation here, and if so, should I ease off a bit when edging so this doesn't occur, or should I continue to do it?

And is this (stopping an ejaculation while still orgasming) really that beneficial?

Also, I've given up on long edging sessions simply because I don't have the time to do them. So instead, I do 3 sessions of 10 minutes each throughout the week. Is this a good idea?

Radiohead · 11-30-2008

Honestly, I don't really edge much. I don't like the theory behind it. To me, it doesn't offer much. That's just my opinion.

What you can do, is bring yourself to a PONR and continue your hand motion. When you're gonna cum, kegel VERY hard. The day you can hold back a full blown ejaculation with a kegel, you've succeeded.

Another thing that is dangerous: if you dont ejaculate after edging, you can damage your prostate. But when you ejaculate and hold the cum back, it's very hard to get erect again. That's the problem with edging in my opinion. I dont recommend it.

But some guys here would strongly recommend edging. It's up to you. Just be aware that you can damage your prostate if you do it badly, and, is it really worth it? You be the judge.

RIB2211 · 11-30-2008

I simply do it for the stamina benefit of it. I've never had sex before, my last relationship of a year and a half we abstained from it due to her religion, but I don't feel like embarassing myself the first time it happens.

Would a "dry orgasm" be the same as an ejaculation? I'm not looking to damage anything here...

kingpole · 12-01-2008

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Originally Posted by RIB2211

I simply do it for the stamina benefit of it. I've never had sex before, my last relationship of a year and a half we abstained from it due to her religion, but I don't feel like embarassing myself the first time it happens.

Would a "dry orgasm" be the same as an ejaculation? I'm not looking to damage anything here...

Sounds like you had a dry orgasm, congrats! But eventually you do want a wet one. The object is for you to get in control of your ejacualtions. To ejacualte when you decide it is time to ejaculate. Like radiohead said not ejaculating can compromise your prostate health.

cloudthinker · 12-01-2008

There is a book out called the multi-orgasmic male that you might find interesting regarding dry orgasms

RIB2211 · 12-02-2008

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Originally Posted by Radiohead

The day you can hold back a full blown ejaculation with a kegel, you've succeeded.

So I actually did this today, even without stopping my hand motions. It was surprisingly easy, and nothing came out at all. Only problem is I basically went flaccid within the next 10-15 seconds. How do I manage to maintain a high erection level after holding back an ejaculation?

kingpole · 12-02-2008

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Originally Posted by RIB2211

So I actually did this today, even without stopping my hand motions. It was surprisingly easy, and nothing came out at all. Only problem is I basically went flaccid within the next 10-15 seconds. How do I manage to maintain a high erection level after holding back an ejaculation?

Takes practice, repeat, get yourself a woody again and start edging again.

You may of had a retro ejacualtion instead of ejaculate shoooting out the end of your cock it went back into your bladder. So you may want to repeat with an ejaculation in the end of the routine. Get the cum out of your bladder/prostate where ever it retreated to.

RIB2211 · 12-03-2008

Thanks for all the info kingpole

RIB2211 · 12-07-2008

Sorry to bump this, but I'm getting worried that I might be harming myself here.

I got to about 4 PONR's in my session, and on my last one (5th PONR), I held back my ejaculation. Now I remember kingpole telling me that I should wait a few minutes after (since my penis goes flaccid in about 45 seconds), give it a few minutes, and start again. Only problem is I couldn't get an erection again.

Should I stop trying to hold back my ejaculation? Am I trying to jump ahead too far?

kingpole · 12-08-2008

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Originally Posted by RIB2211

Sorry to bump this, but I'm getting worried that I might be harming myself here.

I got to about 4 PONR's in my session, and on my last one (5th PONR), I held back my ejaculation. Now I remember kingpole telling me that I should wait a few minutes after (since my penis goes flaccid in about 45 seconds), give it a few minutes, and start again. Only problem is I couldn't get an erection again.

Should I stop trying to hold back my ejaculation? Am I trying to jump ahead too far?

Four PONR's you stud you!! You just wore your weiny out a bit give it a few days and try again. Now this time use a lite grip. When you use a lite grip you ware out your weiny less.