Does Size Matter?

[remek]

I have spent the majority of my day doing some research for my book. Particularly, the focus of my topic today was "Does Size Matter?"

I now have over 4000 words of research, which I will have to condense down to a meager 1000. It appears people like this subject

Although the reason for my research was to acquire some good quotes and examples, I must say I was intrigued with some of the responses on multiple forums.

On one forum, I recall a man with a three inch penis with the confidence of a Bull. He knew he was small, but proclaimed he couldn't do anything about it (little did he know about PE ), so instead he focused his goals on other things. Very interesting.

But more interesting were some of the female posts. I admit that since PE is obviously a big focus of my life, I spent a lot of time talking to female friends and strangers about penis size. So none of this was new to me, but rather more interesting because online the truth is even more prevailing. As the old saying goes, you get to know the true person when they hide behind a mask -- in this case, the internet.

Anyways, on to the females' responses. Women, like men, naturally like different things. Penis size is often compared to breast size -- for good reason. Many men like bigger breasts, but some men don't. More importantly, if I were courting a female that I found attractive in every other way, I surely wouldn't kick her to the curb because she didn't have the right breasts... Perhaps if she didn't have the right butt size... but not breasts. Just kidding.

To the point - This is my opinion, and it has been for a long time. Bigger is better -- to a certain extent. There is such a thing as too big. I probably wouldn't desire a penis size in the double digits, regardless what my partner wanted. Similarly, breasts can be too big too. It kind of goes with the old goldilocks story. Not too big, not too small -- just right

More importantly, is bigger better to you? Does a bigger penis make you feel better? Does it please your partner more? These are the important questions. Does size matter is a very rhetorical question. Of course it matters to some... but not so much to others.

[Dustpan]

Remek,

I never thought that size mattered back years ago. Now that I gained in EL I would say that it does matter. When you find out that there is exercises that can help, GO FOR IT. When you have a penis that turtles when you are flaccid and looks small it doesn't help. Now after 10 months of being with the PE routine it has a different look, it hangs longer and doesn't turtle.

My wife look at my body alot different then she use to. So I think that size does matter to all women.

[remek]

Dust, you hit a very good point I forgot to mention...

Many women claim they would rather have a nice guy, that is good looking and has money, instead of a guy with a big penis. These statements always seem funny to me. It is a way to diverge the question. In an essence, it's like saying nice, good looking, rich guy can't have a bigger penis.

My question to people, when I discuss it with them, requires putting everything else aside and rewording the question to: does a bigger penis feel better than a smaller penis?

[quik4life]

But now the question becomes, "What is the size of a penis that is 'just right'"?

What's not too big and not too small? It varies for each individual.

IMO, I think size does matter. If you didn't, then you wouldn't be PEing right now or even be on this site.

And as far as women saying that the size of a guys penis doesn't matter, those type of responses usually come from women who have not experienced a big penis firsthand (no pun intended).

For some, the ideal might be 7 x 5 and others it might be 8 x 6. I think that if you have anything in between these two sizes, you should consider yourself lucky, stop focusing on PE and start focusing on banging as much poon as possible before you die.

Just my two cents.

[remek]

Quick,

You touched on some amazing points here.

Originally Posted by quik4life

But now the question becomes, "What is the size of a penis that is 'just right'"?

What's not too big and not too small? It varies for each individual.

Absoultely right. This is like the goldilocks scenario I was talking about earlier. Everyone is different. One guy might like "thicker" women, others like girls that weigh 100 lbs. However, there are some girls that are often in the middle. A thick, small women, might highly qualify for both guys, if all else is right.

This is a lot how I look at PE. When PEing, I think it is smart to ask yourself two questions:

First, and most important, what is the penis size that I want? How big do I want to be?

Second, what penis size would be most likely to accomadate all (the size queens and the girls that can't take a big penis). For example, when talking about breast sizes -- a high B cup, or a C cup is most likely the ideal size because the big breasted lovers get a fairly big breast and the small breasted lovers get a breast thats not too big. Similarly, this is the second attribute that should affect your size goal: what is ideal?

This last one can also be changed if your married: what size would my partner want?

Now, onto your last statement. . . .

Originally Posted by quick4life

For some, the ideal might be 7 x 5 and others it might be 8 x 6. I think that if you have anything in between these two sizes, you should consider yourself lucky, stop focusing on PE and start focusing on banging as much poon as possible before you die.

I'd have to agree, something between those numbers is ideal. A few women might not be able to handle an 8X6, but that surely doesn't stop us from acquiring that goal. There is something about those 2 numbers that make us PE go goo-goo-gah-gah. It's like our own sacred mathematical forumal -- 8 times 6 = ideal post-PE penis size.

[quik4life]

Good points remek.

Even to guys themselves, the ideal penis size varies. You can have a person start at 7 x 5 and think 8 x 6 is ideal. Then you can have a guy who thinks 8 x 6 is just normal and that 9 x 7 is more ideal.

Same goes with the other end of the spectrum (like me). I started at 5.75 x 4.25. My ideal size post-PE would be 7 x 5. I'm 5'6" with a medium build - a 7 x 5 would look above average on my body. Put a 7 x 5 cock on a 6'4" bodybuilder and his size just looks average.

Appearances are deceiving.

I guess what I'm trying to say is "to each his own." Personally, I think a 6 x 6 cock would be perfect on my body (7 x 6 the most). Anything bigger would just look out of proportion - just like DD cup's on a 5'2" woman.

[remek]

Quick,

You are absolutely right. To each his own... or, different strokes for different folks.

What I do find interesting though, is that the majority of women prefer more girth. I have heard many times that length isn't as important as girth.

There was actually a study on this. 50 sexually active female undergraduate students were asked: “"In having sex, which feels better, length of penis or width of penis?" In half the cases, the word "width" was used before the word "length," but there were no order effects.

Of the 50 females surveyed, 45 reported that width felt better, with only 5 reporting length felt better (chi square = 32.00, df = 1, p < .001). No females reported that they could not tell any difference. Some did report that sex in a relationship was better than sex without commitment.


http://www.biomedcentral.com/1472-6874/1/1/#IDAAKZAD

[theyllbecummin]

I've talked to many women out there and the overal consensus of their opinions is: hell yes, size matters. One woman went as far as saying, "it doesn't matter if he doesn't know what to do with it, I'll do all the work!" So, now you guys know why I'm here.

[AvgJoe]

I am not sure if size does matter for women, but I believe in Penis Enlargement, and my big ego to get big penis drives me nuts for now.

[remek]

Originally Posted by AvgJoe

And my big ego to get big penis drives me nuts for now.

As it does for us all . . .