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Originally Posted by ilovemtl  I lack motivation in this department. The only thing I can do is make myself feel as if I am small so I would get the urge to do it, but I do not want to do that because of other side effects due to that.
I go to the gym often, but I have tons of motivation for that. I have photos of the body I want, and it makes me want to get them. |
Theres two types of motivation, push and pull. Push motivation is when you say something like this to push yourself toward your goal; "If I dont do this I will feel bad about it later" or "I have to do this or else I'm not going to get bigger", etc. Here is a better way of motivating yourself, pulling yourself toward the goal by making positive statements instead; "If I do this I'm going to get a bigger dick" or "It'll be so great to accomplish this goal", etc.
See the difference. Instead of focusing on the negative things that will/can happen if you Dont do it, focus on the positive thing that will happen if you Do it. The things you want pulls you towards the goal instead of making the thing you dont like push you towards it. Basically the pull method is Much better, many people dont know this they are used to force themself.
Another thing, sometime it feels like you "have to" do this boring exercise. You don't have to do anything, instead realize that you choose to do it because you want a bigger penis. Make a decision to do it. When you catch yourself with the "i have to" or "i should" thinking just think "i choose to" instead.
Also, after youve finished a session reward yourself by doing something you like doing. This is called positive reinforcement and will help install new habits.
Good luck!
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