[tootles]

Hi Guys need some advice really. I've been married for 14 years and my wife cannot seem to orgasm through straight sex. My stats are below and I would think I'm a little above average in girth and length but still... She responds only to hand stimuli. I do notice however that I can't go on for too long for fear of blowing my load. Do you think it's this? You hear of the mystical gspot but I think women can only seem to cum through clitoral stimulation. I want you guys to be honest here and tell me...Is it really possible to make a woman cum through straight sex only?? Perhaps its the woman who maybe fake these things so maybe I should ask them...lol

[buffdaddy]

there are some women who cant climax from penetrative sex w/o additional stimulation. There are some women who CAN climax from straight sex without "faking" it. I cant comment on the "g spot" ; I've found a few of them, but really didnt get a MUCH differentt reaction when stimulating it regardless of means of stimulation. Just my 2 cents

[Dustpan]

Originally Posted by tootles

Hi Guys need some advice really. I've been married for 14 years and my wife cannot seem to orgasm through straight sex. My stats are below and I would think I'm a little above average in girth and length but still... She responds only to hand stimuli. I do notice however that I can't go on for too long for fear of blowing my load. Do you think it's this? You hear of the mystical gspot but I think women can only seem to cum through clitoral stimulation. I want you guys to be honest here and tell me...Is it really possible to make a woman cum through straight sex only?? Perhaps its the woman who maybe fake these things so maybe I should ask them...lol

Tootles,

How has your sex been up till now? You do have to stimulate the clitoris for her before you enter her. There are woman that can cum through straight sexual intercourse. The G spot is about 1 1/2" inside the vagina which can be manually stimulated. I don't think that she is faking, she just need more time being stimulated.

[kingpole]

The "G" spot is on the roof of the vagina. Make sure your glans ride back and fourth on the roof of the vagina. got this from anatomy class a few years ago. My anatomy teacher said its not hard to stimulate the " G" spot just got to get it out of hiding. Don't know if this works have not tried it yet. been celebate for 8 or more years.

[IB81day]

Don't feel bad, I think the percentage of women who can't have a orgasm by sex alone is some where between 75 and 80 percent. I myself like to make my wife have an orgasm by tongue first then when we do have sex I bought her a vibrating cock ring and it works wonders, have had no problems since. After being together for a while you might have to find something else like I did, lol. And theres nothing wrong with that.

[going411by7]

Yeah, women who can orgasm just by regular entry are in the minority. They need a lot of clitoral stimulation. I use my tongue a lot to get my lady ready--and let her orgasm at least once before I even think about entering her.

It's also important to realize that, since you're doing your best, I'm sure, to satisfy her, that she has to also work at satisfying herself. I think this is often overlooked. She needs to tell you what she really likes in order to reach orgasm. You need to talk to her more and get her to tell you what she enjoys the most. You really don't know if you haven't discussed it with her.

[stifmyster928]

k i find that my wife orgasms when i give her oral pleasure and 4play before straight sex and it always works so yeah its more of a mental and mood thing for women not so much bout everything else.

[tootles]

Thanks for the info guys. I think the jury may still be out about this G spot business? Good to know I'm not alone. She can have upto 12 orgasm during one session but i have to go at it then stop get off and massage her to do this. I haven't slept around too much and got married when I was real young so I'm not the most experienced.