First time edging

[hung_not_so_low]

hey guys, i've been doing my jelqing routine for almost 3 weeks now and today was the first time i have tried edging. It was actually the first time masturbating that i have actually lasted more than 5 minutes (actually lasted close to 45-50 minutes i think, about 10 minutes would've been trying to get my buddy back to life) and i have a couple of questions.
Q1. I got really close to PONR about 4 or 5 times able to kegel and stop it but after the first 2 times i lost my erection every time after, is this normal?
Q2. I was doing this while watching porn, is it advised to go without or go with?
Q3. How long does it take on average for any of you guys to cum when your not edging because i thought i might've had pre-e but after my edging session i'm thinking i may not(virgin btw ).

thanks

[wand-extendio]

After a while you will be able to maintain the erection just give it time. Try not to depend on the porn for an erection. Maybe slowly ease off it.

[Edge of Glory]

1. I think you may have had one or more retro-ejaculations (where the semen flows back, instead of out of the penis). This will end your erection in the same way as a normal ejaculation. To prevent it, kegel earlier (it's hard to know exactly when, but practice and you'll get better). It's also possible that you are suffering from a numbing effect and the loss in sensitivity is killing your erection. The best way to overcome this is with more practice edging.

2. Go without porn. Porn can and has caused erection problems for many men. Go off imagination and you know you'll be rock hard for the real thing, which is more stimulating than anything you can imagine (but not always more stimulating than porn, which is designed to extremely stimulate horny guys).

3. When just masturbating (not edging), I can come within a few minutes if I really wanted to. But kegels, reverse kegels, light grip, and slow strokes can keep me going much longer when edging.

[hung_not_so_low]

thanks for the informative answers Edge of glory, really helpful. +rep