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| Junior Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Arizona
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This could be one of the strangest posts to ever show up in PE Gym, but it's legitimate... read on. Intro: I have never been that happy with my penis size (especially flaccid), estimated around 6" BPEL, maybe as low as 5.5" (joined today, need to buy ruler and measure correctly). I am fascinated with the idea of PE, but not sure it's the wisest for me to pursue growth. Of course extra hardness, multiple orgasms, more powerful orgasms and such are benefits we all could use, so I will do some exercises. But here's the pros/cons for me: Cons to growth: 1) wife is small woman (5'2", 105 lbs), I already have to be careful not to bang her cervix and cause pain. I like getting full penetration and think extra length might actually inhibit our sex when we are going hard and fast. Of course girth might be good for both of us, but..... 2) I also like anal and wife already has trouble with it, more girth and/or length might eliminate that routine 3) last but not least - most women (including wife) in my experience have been able to get 75-90% of my cock in their mouth without deepthroat technique. I really enjoy the feeling of their lips down near the base. When I watch the big cock porn stars, I feel they are missing out. Their tools are so big (length and girth), even the pros can only get 25% of that cock in their mouth. Even the less girthed ones are lucky to get 50% in there. I think I get much more pleasure from a blowjob in the end. Pros to growth : 1) more confidence - especially flaccid length 2) if i ever divorced my wife, I would be sporting a mini-monster and I know they get more attention and action (combined with the extra confidence of being hung) - not seriously contemplating, but couldn't think of any more pros. All said, I might go for a little girth and maximum 1" gain in length. I'll definitely work on kegels for all their benefits. But in my case, I do think the cons outweigh the pros in terms of growth, so I am curious what the guys with the big tools think. BTW - you long time members and moderators are doing a great job on this site. It's nice to see such support. Last edited by Wookie; 05-19-2009 at 03:35 AM. |
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| Moderator (formerly figMiNT) Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: undecided
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![]() ![]() | to the Gym Wookie.Firstly, if you want to change the size of your penis than do it. There's no other way to say it, it's really up to you. A small woman (assuming she was always a small woman) don't meet the average penis chart (EG 6.0-6.5 threshold for pleasure to pain), infact I'd bet it's somewhere around 5.5 for her. As for anal, the threshold for pleasure to pain is even less for girth. Length, I would guess she's really feeling it, so this would be more for you, if you want more length. I'm sure another inch wouldn't hurt, but you really don't know do you? There are women who even small, are size queens and can put most pornstars to shame. And then there are those who really like a small penis. There are women who can stick someone who's 5.5" EG in their mouth and fairly long down their throat and stimulate the shaft with their lips. It's a matter of gag reflex. There are pornstars who can put what I'd estimate is 6.0-6.2" EG inside their mouths and down their throat even though it was around 8" EL. Like I've said before I think it depends on what gives you pleasure. For some it's visual, some phyiscal, some mental, some mixtures of the three. Your pros to growth number two really makes we wonder your reasons for doing this. If you are looking for a fallback plan, then you have some reason to have it. You're either looking to do this for you, your wife so she will benefit you, or some other woman so she will benefit you. Once you know what the answer is, you'll know if you're going to go for growth or not.
__________________ "Why pay for what you can get free" How PE Works (8/18/08) BPFL 4.12 FG 4.37 BPEL 6.75 EG 5.37 (3/08/09) BPFL 4.16 FG 4.25 BPEL 6.61 EG 5.25 After 7 months of no PE (4/13/09) BPFL 4.18 FG 4.50 BPEL 6.75 EG 5.5 Lesson: PE WORKS "We learn from failure, not from success!" - Bram Stoker PE90X Routine |
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| Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Massachusetts
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You mentioned that you were never really satisfied with your penis size. First of all, welcome to the club! Second of all, that's a clear indicator that you may want to consider PE for its size qualities (in addition to EQ and MOM). That's funny, my girlfriend is only 5"0', petite (and I mean freakin petite), and she's been able to take like 9" all the way in, skin to skin. Your girl is slightly taller than mine and 6" is hitting her cervix. That'd be a huge confidence boost for me! ![]() I feel that you would be able to compensate (and I think she'd be able to adapt as well) to your new size should you want to grow a little. I say go ahead if you've always wanted something bigger. Anything that boosts confidence is recommended in my book! |
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| Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009
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I'm in agreement there are petite lady's that have totally different abilities and desires to enjoy length and girth. Have enjoyed both, both have great attributes. Mostly it is a personal idea between you and your lady. Women are very adaptable toward there men. They love so deeply that they will tolerate a lot. "If" is such a large word. "if i ever divorced my wife". I have lived that scenario and can testify from personal experience that it is a measure of last resort. Even then it has life time consequences that do not go away. Honor, love and cherish your women and hope you do not go thought the pain, I and the persons close to me have. Live long and prosper.
__________________ Envy Of Men, Pleasure Of a Woman Last edited by eompow; 05-19-2009 at 08:31 AM. |
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| Super Moderator Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Nu Yawk
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Hitting the cervix is a matter of angle. My girl is about 5'6" and depending on how her lower body is tilted, I can either bottom out or feel like I'm pounding down a bottomless pit.
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