[rbi99]

Only been at this a week or so, so there is no growth in length or girth, but yesterday I was successful for the first time stopping the infamous PONR. I was doing downward jelqs and got off of my timing and was doing them too fast. I was in the middle of a jelq when I realized I was about to cum. My first thought was shit, this is going to be messy - but then I remembered all the kegels I have been doing. Without touching my self, just tightening my pc muscle, I stopped it. That in itself was great since I never was able to stop when I got to that point before. However, way more exciting to me is the fact that I have PE and the E doesn't stand for Exercise. My wonderful wife and I have gotten around this problem with the use of toys and much more manual stimulation. While we both consider our sex life great (with a lot of credit to the damn toys!!), I have wanted desperately to have intercourse with my wife for only as long as it would take for us both to be satisfied. I am more encouraged then ever to keep up my kegels. If I stop the PONR while remaining inside of my wife that will be a glorious day indeed!! If I can add an inch of length and 1/2" of girth that would simply be icing on the cake!!

As a side note, since I was nearly done jelqing anyways, I simply stopped. But I wasn't sure whether or not it was ok to keep going if I wanted to. If one finds himself having to kegel in order to stop from cumming, if he is successful, is it ok to keep exercising?

[Cernunnos]

If you keep up with the kegels and holding off on the PONR's, I think you will be vey pleased with the results. I'm glad you are happy so far with the results.

My only worry is, if you almost orgasmed while jelqing, it sounds like you must have been erect? Am I wrong? Anyways, don't do erect jelqs, they are very dangerous. I'm not sure if I've misunderstood, but I thought I'd throw this out there, just in case.

Cheers!

[rbi99]

Thanks for the input, but I was 50% or less. It was the only time that has happened, I just went too quickly.

[Cernunnos]

No problem, bud. Just wanted to be safe.