While having sex if you almost reach the PONR but stop the ejaculation by kegeling, do you remain hard and sexually aroused, or do you soften up a bit and sort of have to start over?
Both ideas can occur. Many times it remaining at about 80% and then returns to 100% with a little more action. If tired or lacking sleep it will go to 50%+/- and then return to 100% with more effort. The more cycles (PORN) that occur the easier it seem to keep at 80% to 100% level. At some point around 5 +/- it can continue and maintain as long as strength and your partner holds out. Discretion and understanding need be applied as to not over stay your welcome with your partner.