Erections

[Goomba80]

I am 19 years old. I have had sex with a lot of girls, however I have never actually had "sex"

I'm unable to hold an erection long enough to get it into a girls vagina. Literially. The only time and position I ever had sex is when the girl is on top of me and I fuck her. The only way my cock is ever hard enough is when she is giving me a blowjob and instantly crawls up and puts it in her pussy. My cock is NEVER hard enough to just go in her in any other position and it's becoming ridiculous.

Just yesterday, I took viagra for the 3rd or 4th time to no avail- My cock STILL wasn't hard enough to fuck the girl(granted, I was wasted drunk).

Has anyone else had this trouble even after having sex with 10 or so girlss? I masturbate fine and my cock is hard enough than, it's just when I am trying to have sex with a girl that it won't stay hard enough. I think it's because I'm nervous that my cock is too small, but I am starting to think it's another reason related to the inner workings of my cock because viagra doesn't even work.

PS im 6 inches long and 5 inches girth.

[Gravik]

Kegel...religiously. Look up a kegel program as well as a beginning program.


my first and second time having sex, I couldn't stay hard to save my life. She would blow me and I could get hard, but I'd soften up right after that, so I know how you feel. A lot of it has to be with being nervous..because I was always thinking "is she going to think i'm too small?"

[frb3]

I am 19 years old. I have had sex with a lot of girls, however I have never actually had "sex"

I'm unable to hold an erection long enough to get it into a girls vagina. Literially. The only time and position I ever had sex is when the girl is on top of me and I fuck her. The only way my cock is ever hard enough is when she is giving me a blowjob and instantly crawls up and puts it in her pussy. My cock is NEVER hard enough to just go in her in any other position and it's becoming ridiculous.

Just yesterday, I took viagra for the 3rd or 4th time to no avail- My cock STILL wasn't hard enough to fuck the girl(granted, I was wasted drunk).

Has anyone else had this trouble even after having sex with 10 or so girlss? I masturbate fine and my cock is hard enough than, it's just when I am trying to have sex with a girl that it won't stay hard enough. I think it's because I'm nervous that my cock is too small, but I am starting to think it's another reason related to the inner workings of my cock because viagra doesn't even work.

PS im 6 inches long and 5 inches girth.

This is not normal, while it could be psychological, lots of young men loose it quickly when confronted by the bearded clam for real, your's sounds physical. Hi thee to a urologist and get yourself tested. Realistically at your age you should be able to pop a girl five times with 20 minute breaks.

frb

[going411by7]

I would bet that there are two ways to solve this problem. Number one: lay off the booze before you have sex--even if you ARE more nervous. Number two: stop watching pornography. It desensitizes us since we are wired to the visual image--which most women are not. That is why porn is much more a man thing than a woman thing. Some women go along with it just to please their man.

If you stop watching porn and if you lay off the drinking, I'll bet you'll become a dynamite lover and the gals will be crawling all over you. Try it!! You might like it!

If neither of these suggestions work, I recommend you see a urologist. We are not physicians nor are we psychiatrists here--as P.H. says.

[MrBigDick]

Back in my early 20's, I tried using alcohol to relax me and it NEVER worked. I've heard of more instances when guys can't get it up when they're blitzed drunk than when they're sober. When I met my current lady, the first time she gave me head, I was only about 70% erect due to nerves and it having been a long time since I'd had any real sex.

Fast forward to now and holy hell. I get raging ass hard ons when we're having sex but there's a comfort level there now that wasn't there before. And, there are even times now when she wants to have sex and I'm either really, really tired from my long work day or I've got too many other things on my mind and I can't focus on sex and as soon as she stops sucking it, I'll go a bit limp.

Do as g411by7 suggested and lay off the booze and the porn. If those don't work, seek some medical attention. You are WAY too young to be experiencing this sort of thing.

[adrenalPE44]

Yeah, watching porn for a long time in a day is bad; you are overworking the nervous system associated with your penis. Just relax yourself by doing the things you love or listening to music.

[kingpole]

Maybe perhaps you should try to foster a monogmous relationship. One night stands and girl hopping can be very stressful. And what is this phony macho postering all for but to notch marks into your head bored. You should not be counting the score! But improving your erections for that one true love. So if you have not guessed it stop fucking around drunk!

[Rasputine]

I am 19 years old. I have had sex with a lot of girls, however I have never actually had "sex"

I'm unable to hold an erection long enough to get it into a girls vagina. Literially. The only time and position I ever had sex is when the girl is on top of me and I fuck her. The only way my cock is ever hard enough is when she is giving me a blowjob and instantly crawls up and puts it in her pussy. My cock is NEVER hard enough to just go in her in any other position and it's becoming ridiculous.

Just yesterday, I took viagra for the 3rd or 4th time to no avail- My cock STILL wasn't hard enough to fuck the girl(granted, I was wasted drunk).

Has anyone else had this trouble even after having sex with 10 or so girlss? I masturbate fine and my cock is hard enough than, it's just when I am trying to have sex with a girl that it won't stay hard enough. I think it's because I'm nervous that my cock is too small, but I am starting to think it's another reason related to the inner workings of my cock because viagra doesn't even work.

PS im 6 inches long and 5 inches girth.

- Not to be a wise ass,But didn't Former President Clinton say,"I never had sex with that women! First you say "I have never actually had sex" Then you say,"Has anyone else had this problem after having sex with ten or more girls? Lay off the booze or chances are you will end up with a problem neither you or anyone else can fix.