[kingpole]

Originally Posted by Elias

I was just wanting to say the same thing as NSF001. You measured 4.25" just now! And in your log you are saying how your EQ has gone up. You are having rock hard erections. Veins bulging like never before.

I have suffered from ED so I know that there are times when the mind is full of shit.

Mate, all these results from PE you are having should give you a confidence boost! You are on the way. PE is working for you. Now all you need is positive thinking!

And how are you doing is PE working for you?

[Elias]

Originally Posted by kingpole

And how are you doing is PE working for you?

Yeah KP, it is working. During the past 9 weeks, I've gained some and also increased my EQ. But there have been times when I have lost my EQ due to some stupid advanced exercises that I should not have done. Now I am back to basics with a smile and a good EQ.

[Cult]

Hey Guys,

You're all such great people, thanks for all of the comments.

Yes indeed I guess PE is working for me, and I certainly don't intend to give up any time soon. I need to keep a positive attitude. There's no point in giving up, as within a year of plodding along with my routine, I could be exactly how I want to be!

I don't want to end up in a years time regretting the fact that I didn't stay dedicated to my attempts at PE.

I spoke to a friend of mine and admitted that I feel inadequate, and to my surprise, he was really quite supportive. I didn't admit that I actually am small in the girth department, which lead to comments like "I'm sure you've got more than enough size for the job in hand'.

He put a point towards me that I've got a case of 'Analysis Paralysis'. After a little reading up, it describes my attitude completely.

From Wikipedia: Analysis paralysis - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Personal analysis

Casual analysis paralysis can occur during the process of trying to make personal decisions if the decision-maker overanalyzes the circumstance with which he or she is faced. When this happens, the sheer volume of analysis overwhelms the decision-maker, weighing him or her down so much he or she feels overwhelmed with the task and is thus unable to come to a rational conclusion. Such a circumstance is more formally known as cognitive distortion.

Ever since I was about 15 and I tried on a condom and it didn't fit tightly I have always been stupidly aware of my penis size. Things race through my head and I think about every possible scenario APART FROM THE SECNARIOS WITH A GOOD OUTCOME.

I know these feelings will disappear once I've finally been forced in to having sex with someone lol. I know it's most likely that I will look back at this and laugh, but it's a big deal to me right now.

Hurrah for PE!

Cult

[LookAlive]

Good post! That's a very good diagnosis, it's also very interesting!

I hope you can overcome your overanalyzing!

Good luck!

[Hairtrigger]

Originally Posted by Cult

Ever since I was about 15 and I tried on a condom and it didn't fit tightly I have always been stupidly aware of my penis size. Things race through my head and I think about every possible scenario APART FROM THE SECNARIOS WITH A GOOD OUTCOME.

This is one thing that brings you down, you spend more time measuring than you should and there is no need to measure yourself more than twice a month. PE is more than just making your unit larger, it goes way beyond that and it will take time before you can realize this. Gains in stamina and erection quality will get you more points than size will. Those types of gains are what produces the confidence level needed so that you can satisfy your woman everytime, I tend to look at any size gains from PE as a bonus not a must. The link below is my take on measuring.

PS: Don't measure your girth right behind the Glans because this is the smallest part of anyones* unit. Measure girth about an inch below the Glans or at mid shaft, this is where most people measure.

*excluding Mr.Friend

http://www.pegym.com/forums/progress...html#post12557

[Mr.Friend]

Originally Posted by Hairtrigger

This is one thing that brings you down, you spend more time measuring than you should and there is no need to measure yourself more than twice a month. PE is more than just making your unit larger, it goes way beyond that and it will take time before you can realize this. Gains in stamina and erection quality will get you more points than size will. Those types of gains are what produces the confidence level needed so that you can satisfy your woman everytime, I tend to look at any size gains from PE as a bonus not a must. The link below is my take on measuring.

PS: Don't measure your girth right behind the Glans because this is the smallest part of anyones unit. Measure girth about an inch below the Glans or at mid shaft, this is where most people measure.

http://www.pegym.com/forums/progress...html#post12557

not true. The best girth I get is right behing my glans. About 4.25-4.3 at the base, and about 4.8-4.85 behind the glans

[hethen]

I know exactly how you feel with insecurity. A couple of weekends ago, I was in bed with a hot blonde chick who stripped completely naked, was kissing all over me and rubbing her huge fake tits over my face...what happened? Nothing. I was so insecure about myself, and that I wouldn't be able to please her, that I couldn't even get a boner, so I rolled over and told her to go to sleep. I bet that was the first time she had ever been turned down, and we really haven't spoken to each other the same since then. If I had confidence, I'm sure it wouldn't have been nearly as bad as I had it played out in my head, and we both could've enjoyed the situation. So don't make the same mistake I did. It's not worth it (unless you avoid an STD...then it is :-) )

I don't know how much this will help, but take it for what it's worth. Sex to a female is mostly emotional, and much less physical. If she feels attraction for you, she will enjoy the sex. The ex in my LTR left me for another guy that is much smaller than I am but she enjoys the sex more than with me because he "doesn't hurt her", which allows her to do crazy stupid funky positions that she couldn't ever do with me. Plus, she felt a new attraction for this guy, so she didn't really care that he was small, even though he can't get her off, she still enjoys it. So keep that in mind - if your girlfriend wants it, that means she's attracted to you, and you shouldn't have anything to worry about. If it was me, though, I would save it for someone special, because you will always remember your first. As difficult as it is, don't let it bother you.

[Cult]

Hey hethen,

I have read what you have said and that means a hell of a lot to me, so thank you! It's great to hear other people's experiences and perspectives on these things.

I agree with what you said about the finding someone special thing... I have thought to myself "Why don't you get some practice in by having a one night stand with someone?". But then I realise that I don't want my first time to be with someone that I don't even know, why would I want that? - oh and it would mean cheating on my girlfriend, I like to treat people how I would like to be treated.

Sorry to hear about your situation with that blonde girl though, I have also turned girls down by rolling over and sleeping, on more than one occasion.

Cult