I wrote this post, how I visualise Premature/Delayed Ejaculation, how I try to control it in my head. I'm blogging it because this visualisation is crystal clear in my head, and I'd like to know if I've been able to convey it effectively, and if it makes sense to you too. And of course if not, how YOU visualise it.

If you don't visualise it at all, and you have any issues with your own control in either direction, I recommend that you start.

from this amazing thread. http://www.pegym.com/forums/prematur...tml#post670827 ...

Who knew?

Little background on me and my psychology. Three years ago or so I was in a relationship that had gone badly wrong. I was a mess, and my self esteem was at rock bottom. Then I ended it. Making that decision was the beginning of an assertion to sort myself out.

Among many things, part of that was working on my attutude to myself. NLP was helpful here. Another part of that was coming here to sort out my PreE. I gave PE a go too and much to my surprise gained half an inch or so.
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I'm so bored of hearing this.

Y'know, the more fucking you do, with more people, the less you give a crap about the size of your penis, and the less it matters.

Why does it matter less? because you stopped caring about her opinion of it, and instead you just want her to cum. A LOT. So you learn that fucking her at the right angle will send her through the roof every time. And with that attitude, she knows this, she knows it's likely you can and will. And when she knows ...

So my last girlfriend was abused as a child. I heard the whole story, and it's pretty unpleasant. The man in question is clearly sick in the head. There's a lot more I could say, but it'd be kind of pointless.

I always suspected my girlfriend before her had been as well for a few reasons. Internal injuries that meant she couldn't have kids, some unusual aspects in her attitude to her own pleasure during sex, and a reluctance to discuss her childhood. Unlike my more recent ex, who freely ...