so a few things I will list before I explain. I am 22, a virgin (had many opportunities but this has like always been a problem with every girl). have a chance right now to have sex with a perfect girl. Used to masturbate daily, usually more than once a day, and almost always to porn. Took a break for a few weeks a few months ago but got hooked again.
I think I've always had "bad masturbation technique" in that while doing it, I would like...flex my ass and my quads and even point my toes downwards a lot while masturbating, and perhaps this has created a crutch that i rely on to get/maintain erections. I have stopped doing that but idk if it has helped anything. But I'd say I was masturbating that way for a good 8 years, since I started
I always have morning wood, I can get erections on my own, maybe not just by thinking about stuff, unless I am truly in the zone and daydreaming. Oh yeah and my blood pressure is perfect.
Okay so yeah, even when I am there, making out with and fingering and going down on a girl I don't get an erection at all. Maybe a little chub but nothing great. Now the thing is, I am extremely attracted to especially this most recent girl and I don't understand why that doesn't get me rock hard because it should....
I am a pretty healthy and athletic guy, try to eat well. 6'3 200 pounds, so not obese or anything. Does anyone have any advice on what it is/how to fix it, or ideas what to try? I mean if I can get them on my own just fine, I should be able to get them with her. I personally think it has to do with the routine I have created over years to get erections when I want to masturbate, by rubbing my penis and flexing my lower body. But who really knows
I think I've always had "bad masturbation technique" in that while doing it, I would like...flex my ass and my quads and even point my toes downwards a lot while masturbating, and perhaps this has created a crutch that i rely on to get/maintain erections. I have stopped doing that but idk if it has helped anything. But I'd say I was masturbating that way for a good 8 years, since I started
I always have morning wood, I can get erections on my own, maybe not just by thinking about stuff, unless I am truly in the zone and daydreaming. Oh yeah and my blood pressure is perfect.
Okay so yeah, even when I am there, making out with and fingering and going down on a girl I don't get an erection at all. Maybe a little chub but nothing great. Now the thing is, I am extremely attracted to especially this most recent girl and I don't understand why that doesn't get me rock hard because it should....
I am a pretty healthy and athletic guy, try to eat well. 6'3 200 pounds, so not obese or anything. Does anyone have any advice on what it is/how to fix it, or ideas what to try? I mean if I can get them on my own just fine, I should be able to get them with her. I personally think it has to do with the routine I have created over years to get erections when I want to masturbate, by rubbing my penis and flexing my lower body. But who really knows
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