[Big Al]

Originally Posted by Mr. Determined

Big Al, ur right. I started doing PE because of her. But something did come out of it. I really liked it. And i want to continue. See if i can really achieve what others have. Why not! I believe if u have enough motivation, patience and dedication u should b able to gain...

Grow on that This may be the beginning of a whole new chapter in your life- one of goal settings/achieving and positive accomplishments. With a new found sense of self-esteem you can become the kind of man your kids will be proud of.

[Mr. Determined]

Mr. BigDick: Ur so right. I'm going to follow ur example. I have found my lost balls. They were somewhere in one of her Gucci bags. I'm blowing the dust off'em and revving the engine!

Big Al: Thank u for ur words of encouragement. I will stay at PE till I have accomplished my goals and then some.

[Big Al]

You're welcome

[MrBigDick]

Originally Posted by Mr. Determined

Mr. BigDick: Ur so right. I'm going to follow ur example. I have found my lost balls. They were somewhere in one of her Gucci bags. I'm blowing the dust off'em and revving the engine!

Big Al: Thank u for ur words of encouragement. I will stay at PE till I have accomplished my goals and then some.

Listen bro, let me tell you something. It took me years to get the courage to finally admit to myself that my then wife was not the woman of my dreams nor was I in love with her. I still remember the night I went to bed and I laid down and I asked myself a very direct question: "Am I in love with this person". My answer was a very clear and firm "no". It was at that point that I realized that something had to be done, kids or no kids. I couldn't continue to live with someone who didn't respect, love or cherish me that I should've been nor could I be with someone who simply didn't enjoy sex. And it was only during a Dr. Phil episode I was watching when I finally had the guts to say "why are we doing this charade?" "You don't love me and I don't love you, we simply share a house and two kids". "Why don't we just get a divorce and call it quits?". She then confessed that she was going to ask me for a divorce after the holidays (this was 9/03) because she simply wasn't happy.

And there you have it. 5 years later, dude, I'm the happiest I've been in a long, LONG time. I love my life, the direction that I'm heading and I have my inner strength to thank for it. You can do it dude.