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  • How does stopping porn increase EQ?

    What mechanisms might be at play?

    And if porn decreases EQ, can porn fantasies during edging also decrease EQ and be counter-productive?

    So it PE Zen's idea of edging without any visualisation the best way to go, even if it's a very slow way of getting hard?

    Regards,

    A3
    All for a healthy lifestyle!

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    Relying on your imagination is important to keep it alive, porn numbs imagination, over time, you will forget porn and revert back to normal arousal mode, they are never the same nor close.

    It will help to note that porn is not real, if you watch Star Wars and fear that Vader may destroy your planet then there is trouble, same with porn, it is acting, carrying out extreme and non realistic fantasies that caters to their audiences kinks, the problem is when people watch it at a young age and/or start to believe it is real, and this is how sex is or should be, that makes it hard for them when they cant get that same type of stimulation from real life sex.

    It leads to relationship issues, as the porn dependent partner may seek or expect way too much from their partner, lose interest or get porn induced ED.

    By detoxing from porn, the body returns to normal and the person can enjoy a healthy and pleasurable sex life.

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    • #3
      "
      Relying on your imagination is important to keep it alive, porn numbs imagination, over time, you will forget porn and revert back to normal arousal mode, they are never the same nor close."

      So it is reasonable to keep using my imagination to stay hard when edging? Even if my imagination is porn-like?
      All for a healthy lifestyle!

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Anchorage3 View Post
        "
        Relying on your imagination is important to keep it alive, porn numbs imagination, over time, you will forget porn and revert back to normal arousal mode, they are never the same nor close."

        So it is reasonable to keep using my imagination to stay hard when edging? Even if my imagination is porn-like?
        Yes, keep relying on your imagination! Recall previous encounters, an erotic novel/story, whatever gets you going, as long as you engage your imagination!
        A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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        • #5
          Porn makes you dissociate from reality and real sex and emotions by giving you a false sense of comfort in fantasy. So after time real sex with real women doesn't give you the same high as porn does. Porn can really become a learned addiction after time and affect your interpersonal skills with women if you dive too deep into the fantasy.

          There are a few types of porn you can watch though. Not all of it is bad for your EQ with normal women. Try either the girlfriend type pornos where average looking people make love instead of fucking before a camera, or very bland videos of girls fingering themselves.... something you might actually see.
          Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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          • #6
            Think about hot ties you know for edging.
            Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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            • #7
              When you watch porn you are overstimulating and desensitizing your penis and brains response to sex. Imagination won't have the same potency of effect, it is much more natural.
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              • #8
                Awesome, I'll keep on imagining

                btw my interpersonal skills with women have skyrocketed
                All for a healthy lifestyle!

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Anchorage3 View Post
                  Awesome, I'll keep on imagining

                  btw my interpersonal skills with women have skyrocketed
                  Also try to imagine real life scenarios when you masturbate.

                  Play with your fantasies from beginning to end, starting from you meeting her, to look on her face when you make her laugh, to what it feels like to hold her body pressed to yours, to her being a little hesitant about kissing you and having sex. Get these down pat and your dates will get a lot easier because you're basically training yourself for the real thing. None of that bend over and put it in the butt stuff that isn't real or romantic and will only kill the moment.

                  One thing I will say about this is that women do have some pretty kinky fantasies too, but the majority of the time they want you to take control and to feel comfortable with you. If you can get a hold of that mindset and play out a romantic fantasy before you tear her dress off, you'll blow her mind. You might want to check out this book called "Dangerous Men; Adventurous Women". It's a book about how to write a romance novel written by popular romance novelist authors and deals a lot with why these archetypes are so popular. You know, the tough guy with a sweet heart who she teaches how to love or the strong silent deeply hurt type who she feels she can fix with love.
                  Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by TheGreatDivider View Post
                    Also try to imagine real life scenarios when you masturbate.
                    Who do I imagine?
                    All for a healthy lifestyle!

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Anchorage3 View Post
                      Who do I imagine?
                      Anyone you have ever met in person.
                      Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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                      • #12
                        And it wont help unless you have unhealthy, obsessive additction to watching porn with unrealistic expectations in real life. 90% of guy watch porn and 98% have no problems. But then again there is that 2%.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by TheGreatDivider View Post
                          Porn makes you dissociate from reality and real sex and emotions by giving you a false sense of comfort in fantasy. So after time real sex with real women doesn't give you the same high as porn does. Porn can really become a learned addiction after time and affect your interpersonal skills with women if you dive too deep into the fantasy.

                          There are a few types of porn you can watch though. Not all of it is bad for your EQ with normal women. Try either the girlfriend type pornos where average looking people make love instead of fucking before a camera, or very bland videos of girls fingering themselves.... something you might actually see.
                          That and your expectation for females changes....and you become entrapped or enclosed this way.

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                          • #14
                            That's why erotic literature is so much better than porn. You get to decide how the people in the story look to you and there's a real plot and reason why these people are fucking. I'm not even talking about the books or the stuff written by men to help other men jack off. Real romantic literature, the stuff written by wives and girlfriends about themselves.... It will blow you away.
                            Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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