So confused about this...

coldsymphony13 · 10-10-2009

My penis is playing with my mind... Therefore, I have a couple of questions.

I unfortunately am in a situation where it is impossible to do jelq routines effectively but I do kegels, and just recently learned about reverse kegels and do them everyday.

One time after masturbation (before i ever did reverse kegels intentionally) I ejaculated and to my surprise I had a throbbing rock hard erection for an hour afterward, this was the first time this happened, and i was scared shitless the first time! After being able to do it two or three more times as time went on and trying to find some sort of answers on how it happens and how to do it, it became an incredible experience of just the thought of doing it when it counted.

My problem is I want to be able to master this 'technique' but I have no idea how I did it, so please guide me on how I do this if anyone knows.

Now for the mind tricks from my lifelong friend. There has been a couple of times recently where I went and had a few drinks with a friend who I find quite beautiful and when things begin to get heavy I can't even get an erection! Some time passes and me and the same girl hangout (after I learn about reverse kegels and their greatness) I try to use them to help gain an erection when it was happening again and alas, nothing. Obviously this is embarrassing. How do I fix this and why is it even happening? It isn't the first time, prior to this was the first couple times with a girlfriend, every time I went to put on a condom, before I knew it, it was gone, it's like my erections have no life sometimes.

I do not know if this is important, but I do regular kegels all day everyday, I have no particular routine. I do quick and hard and just long hold ones. Reverse kegels I usually only do during masturbation or sex and I hold them for 10-30 seconds (rarely longer) to engorge my penis with blood. also, sometimes I reverse kegel til engorgment, and do a long kegel hold. I heard this helps with maintaining rock hard erection.

I just don't understand, one night I am scared because I've never had a steel erection last an hour after ejaculation and I'm not sure what's going on, and then another I can't even get an erection period. I am so confused.

I am a newbie when it comes to overall knowledge of kegels, reverse kegels, and why my erections are so random and have little information on the importance of each piece of the puzzle, so I ask, please anyone, enlighten me.

Pegasus · 10-10-2009

Ok the mind is very important to erections and stress is a well known erection killer.
But that is only half your question.
It is possible to have orgasms without ejaculation and do this for prolonged periods, but what you have done is different.
A few men can ,(usually only when young) come more than once with a single hard on. So if they cum they do not lose erection and may come again with the same erection. I think this is what happened to you. Nothing to worry about, you just need to relax so that your dick can function well.

Lazy 8 · 10-13-2009

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Originally Posted by Pegasus

Ok the mind is very important to erections and stress is a well known erection killer.
But that is only half your question.
It is possible to have orgasms without ejaculation and do this for prolonged periods, but what you have done is different.
A few men can ,(usually only when young) come more than once with a single hard on. So if they cum they do not lose erection and may come again with the same erection. I think this is what happened to you. Nothing to worry about, you just need to relax so that your dick can function well.

Your brain is your biggest and most important sex organ!

kingpole · 10-14-2009

I have often gone on with the same boner. I think kegels have a lot to do with this type of stamina.

coldsymphony13 · 10-14-2009

It may have very well been stress. I will go for that and try to just relax myself and realize there isn't anything in that situation i need to be worried about...

As far as the erection even after ejaculation, I know the two times I've done it I regular kegel'd a ridiculous amount. Trying to replicate it has been a problem, maybe I will just step up my kegel routines because Kingpole, I think you are correct that it mainly has to do with kegeling.