Dealing with the exboyfriends size

[AverageMike]

I am new to all the PE, but I like what I hear and I am going to start a routine this week. I had already recently bought some pills that I received yesterday. So I have my fingers crossed....

But here is my question: I am an average size guy about 5.0" X 3.0" and my new wife let it slip that her exboyfriend had to wear Magnum condoms which from what I believe is that you have to be huge to fit into those things.

Now I feel extremely inatequate in the bedroom and while she seems to enjoy the sex I can't help but feel she wishs she had more. To top it off she is 30 and her exboyfriend was 22 and she gave him all this money to pay for his school and it really seems like she was crazy about him. So I can't help but think she was blinded by amazing sex from some huge dicked kid. Honestly I worry about her someday cheating on me if her were to come around, like she could not control herself because she wants a huge dick.

Any advice to help me through this?

My apologies if this is not the type of discussion normally found here but I am desperate for advice.

[remek]

AverageMike,

Welcome to the Gym!

About your problem: Do you think your wife would really cheat, or do you think it's your insecurity talking? If you think she would cheat, which is an understandable thought, then you may have to take a step back and look closer at your relationship: What's causes the doubts? Is it trust issues? Is it beyond the penis size? Has she cheated in the past (a big clue she might do it again)?

If it's just the penis size bothering you, and you don't think your wife will really cheat, then I suggest you talk to her about it. Tell her: "Hey, honey, I know I'm no Long Dong Silver, but I've heard about this thing called PE. It takes time, but I can make my penis harder and bigger if I stick with it." Then ask her what she thinks. She may support you and get extremely turned on by the fact that you want to be bigger for her.

If you do tell her, you must be honest with her and yourself that it doesn't happen overnight.

Good luck and keep us updated!

[FrostyCass]

Originally Posted by AverageMike

Now I feel extremely inatequate in the bedroom and while she seems to enjoy the sex I can't help but feel she wishs she had more. To top it off she is 30 and her exboyfriend was 22 and she gave him all this money to pay for his school and it really seems like she was crazy about him. So I can't help but think she was blinded by amazing sex from some huge dicked kid. Honestly I worry about her someday cheating on me if her were to come around, like she could not control herself because she wants a huge dick.

Any advice to help me through this?

Hey AverageMike,

My first advice is to change your name from 'AverageMike' to 'SuperiorMike' or something along those lines. Think about where you want to be/have/end up with PE.

My second advice is to stop thinking about ex's that your wife has been with cause its in the past and you can't change it. She choose you and she's with you. All you can do now is focus on this moment and plan ahead to where you want to go. Since your at this site, give us some goals of where you want to be and I'm sure that members here will give you steps/tips on achieving them.

My last advice is to talk to her about this issue. Ask her questions on what does she like about sex with you and how can we make it better. Then you can lead into PEing and how you think this will help.

A side note....I'm doing this for myself #1 then my girlfriend/future wife #2 not the other way around.

[remek]

SuperiorMike,

Listen to Frosty's great advice. You have control of your thoughts, your penis, and your relationship.

[Dustpan]

AverageMike
I waited 40 years with my wife before I faced the fact that I had a under average penis, then I did something about it only 2-1/2 years ago. Now my wife loves our sex life. First off I had talked to her about PE and how it would help increase the size in length and girth in my penis. At first she didn't believe it was possible to make it bigger, but now she is a believer in the exercises that I have been doing.

[fitboy]

Dustpan, your story always inspires me.

Fitboy