Ice: If it is a blood flow problem, then yes Kegels will help. But it may be something else. Anatomically speaking, your penis is broken into three chambers. The bottom chamber (the CS) connects to your glans. The next time you get an erection, try rubbing on your bottom chamber. You may notice that the bottom chamber isn't nearly as hard as the top two chambers (the CCs).
The soft glans may be normal for some guys, but I'm not sure. As Beaver points out, it happens to him too. It's happened to me occasionally as well--usually when my penis isn't rock hard--that's why I think it might be caused by poor blood flow.
Either way, the glans are naturally suppose to be hard. In fact, there's a ligament in the glans (the distal ligament) that makes the penis hard enough to penetrate the vagina for sex.
My advice: Really focus on your Kegels for a few weeks (but don't overtrain with them). |