Does Size Matter? - Page 2

Toddi · 11-12-2006, 05:47 AM

I believe in some cases size DOES matter, and in others it doesn't.

I believe girls/women get turned on by a big dick, like most of us men get turn on by some nice tits or ass. Or even both.. :P

This is very different from girl to girl. I was with a girl, who told me, that she'd like my dick bigger, and she had just turned 13! And another girl woulndn't like my dick bigger, she had been with a huge one and that only hurted her, so she thought my was perfect. - This other one did I also give a lot of orgasms, so I belive her.. :P And she was tight!

Some girls are maybe just a bit loose and need something bigger than average, and then some er nice and tight and would love an average dick.

But in genereal I think bigger is better. - And sorry for my English.

remek · 11-12-2006, 08:26 AM

Toddi, great post. You hit the nail on the head.

I've done a few interviews with women; trying to get to know how they really feel about a big penis. A lot of them said a bigger penis doesn't necessarily feel any better -- yet it's a visual turn on... A lot like how, as you said, a nice set of breasts and a good butt can turn us men on.

Even still, this, at least to me, gives us all the more reason to PE. Because in many cases, "nice tits and ass" can make or break a woman in the visual department.

Toddi · 11-13-2006, 01:42 PM

Thank you Remek. (:

Necessarily I also don't think bigger equals better, but bigger COULD equal easier - meant by that, a woman MAY easier get an orgasm by a bigger one over a smaller. But then what is a bigger, and what is a smaller? And what is in the middle. I think most men is in the middle group, not too small jet not big enough.

I believe that a average or a middle penis easily could satisfy a woman's need, especially in a long-term relationship, and I believe sex has a lot with technique to do than just size.

But we men are not satisfied by just being average or just satisfying the woman, I think we all want to be the best ever, and hopefully also the biggest. That is why I PE, because I'd like a girl not just say it was good and I have a big member, I'd like her to think my sex was awesome and that I have a huge penis.

And we shall not forget, that some women just can't get a orgasm or just a clitoris orgasm, and then it doesn't matter how big dick you have. This is just something the woman has to learn for her self, and then there are some how almost get a orgasm just by thinking of sex. Women are very different. :P

- Toddi

BTW. Thanks for spelling-chek.. :P

Oldhand · 11-14-2006, 10:28 AM

Remek and Toddi

Not a lot to disagree with in your surmises, but as you grow older (I'm 68), the old todger is treated more like an old friend and plaything by your partner. Surveys show that mutual masturbation increases with age - doesn't require as much energetic input - and that's when bigger is definitely better; doesn't matter if it's too big for coital sex anymore; just as long as it works!

Oldhand.

jaybee · 11-15-2006, 10:03 AM

i believe that bigger is better and that women prefer it. I think often the answers that women give to negate that premise is done on the grounds of knowing that being so frank about the size issue would hurt a lot of mens feelings. Like my ex used to tell me that size did not matter at all, yet, sorry to get personal, when i used to ask her about sexual experiences she had in her past that turned her on, (yeah im a perv) she cited her experience with the guy who was 'by far the biggest' shes experienced. Now her ex husband was at least 8" NBP and he was nowhere near this dude that was 'by far the biggest'. so he must've been around the 10" mark. The fact she turned immediately to that experience when i asked her that question, when she had so many men to pick from just shows to me that size does matter.

When i was together with my wife, and i first started tackling the size issue head on, when i fingered her, i used to use just one or two. But i wanted to see if size did have an impact so i started using lots more, to make it seem like she was getting something really girthy, and i also started using implements that were much thicker/bigger than my dick. Now she was always saying the same size doesnt matter thing, but, do you know what, the experiment showed different results.

So in conclusion, id say, women are sensitive, size does matter to them, but they desist from being open about that, because penis size is a sensitive issue to us guys...

remek · 11-16-2006, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by jaybee

So in conclusion, id say, women are sensitive, size does matter to them, but they desist from being open about that, because penis size is a sensitive issue to us guys...

Penis size is definitely a sensitive issue for us guys. I really think that's the meant-and-potatoes of PE. Regardless of how long it takes, with PE we know, we really know, that we have the we're no longer plauged with what we are born with; rather we are cured with the power to change. And this power to change makes all the difference in the world, IMO, to our confidence.

I think once PE becomes mainstream, a lot of guys will have an opportunity that they never had, and as a result their lives and their confidence will be altered for the good.

remek · 11-16-2006, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Toddi

Thank you Remek. (:

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But we men are not satisfied by just being average or just satisfying the woman, I think we all want to be the best ever, and hopefully also the biggest. That is why I PE, because I'd like a girl not just say it was good and I have a big member, I'd like her to think my sex was awesome and that I have a huge penis.

You're welcome

And Toddi, I think a lot of PEers are like you; they want to be the biggest, the best, the supreme. I'm the same way. It's natural male competive instinct.

I often wonder how this is going to turn out once everything goes public. The whole population of man competiting for a bigger penis.

remek · 11-16-2006, 01:02 PM

Oldhand,

Good to have an older gentleman on the forum. Dustpan, one of our moderators, is around your age. I don't know about you, but PE has changed his life.

Toddi · 11-16-2006, 06:16 PM

Well Remek, if we don't give away all our PE secrets- maybe just to length - then we could still be the best of the best. :P

But i'm not sure if it becomes common knowlege(?), everyone will use it. Look at cardio and budybuilding - it's far from common that people do this serious. (:- Eventhough it has many bennefits.

jaybee · 11-17-2006, 08:11 AM

i feel kinda somewhat relectant slightly at the whole idea of PE becomming mainstream. Just the whole idea of trying to compete with people already born with 8,9,10 inches doesnt seem very viable...