showing your penis picture to an adult who wants to see it for a purpose such as PE rather than for seductive reasons should not be a problem in a free liberal society. After all penis is just another part of your body without which none of us would have been on this world today. I do not think PE is a gimick, a seductive activityor a pornographic subject. It is same as body building, breast enhancement etc.
I can understand the reason of shyness, embarrassment or low self-esteem if you have a deformity, an ugly looking or a small penis. My reason for being shying from it at this moment in time is not deformity or bad looks but smaller size, and that is why I am interested in PE to increase it's size. To be statisfied with one's size is not an absolute fixed state, it is COMPARATIVE to other men. You feel you are small because either you see or hear of bigger ones. You want to know the average range and the biggest possible to see yourself in your own eyes where you stand. If you tell me average is upto 7.5 but then four guys tell me they are 14 inches long. This is bound to have an effect on me despite knowing the average. It is good for those four that I will see them and react towards them in such a way that they it will add to their pride, confidence and self-esteem but what about me? How will I start to feel about myself. I have started PE to boost my confidence but if such site is going to rob it away then I would say we are not achieing what we want to.
All I can say is that what I hear from some guys that how good looking and big there member is irrespective of PE or no PE, it makes me bit surprised that they shy from showing their dick. Having said that I am thinking from my own way of thinking but everyone is different and I respect individuals privacy, dignity and their choice in this matter.
Please think of guys like myself who have only 5.75 to 6.0 in erction, when hear that some one has 14 inches long dick with 8 inches girth, whether with PE or without PE what effect it is likely to have on my self image and self esteem.
I MUST SAY THAT TO ME THE ISSUE RELATED TO PHOTOGRAPHS SHOULD NOT BE CONFUSED WITH THE EFFECTIVENESS OF PE. Every individual is likely to have different level of gains from PE. The issue however does come into question indirectly when people want to gage how much they can expect from PE. Some may overdo PE in a short period of time ,hindering their progress after what they may hear from one individual person about his gain without realizing that every individual is different. Also some after having some gain from PE may not be able to achieve the level of confidence which they thought to acheive to start with even after their originally desired goal because they hear some one has 14 inhes long penis before PE and they are not satisfied with Girth which is only 6inches and hence they are interested in PE.
PE sites may defeat one of their own objectives namely providing men to achieve self confidence and good self image after achieving a certain level of gain.
I know some people are still wanting to have longer hangs even after achieve quite a good result with PE. What if one person comes on the site and says that even without PE he is 2 inches short of reaching his knees and he wants to reach his knees with PE? What would you think? What would you say? What can possibily you say? What would you feel of your self even after having gains from PE?
My only worry is that the credibility of PE, which does work may get diluted by reports which many may believe to be unrealistic and then in a sweeping statement discard PE. THINK about it. Some of the e-mails may on the surface appear convincing to those in to PE but may actually push away some one new to this field; hence doing a dis-service to PE by not attracting as many as possible to this field. SERIOUS GUYS THINK WHAT I AM SAYING, NOT ONLY FOR NOW BUT FOR FUTURE AS WELL., future of PE. You would not like it to be percieed as a gimick. Unfortunately in this world PERCEPTION is more important than the actual reality. A BAD NAME is worse than being actually bad but not seen as bad.
If PE has to progress SLOW, Steady Logical and Scientifis approach is needed.
Otherwise it can Just be regarded a fun by many.
Cmmited to PE
and already seeing good results in one month
soody
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