- 11-05-2008 #11
Hey sorry if I upsetted you JonPop. I just had to get that little bit of emotion off my chest. I am trying to put my girlfriend and I's talk behind me and just concentrate on improving my penis.
- 11-06-2008 #12
- Join Date
- Feb 2008
- Somewhere Between Birth and Death
You didn't upset ME. That's what I was trying to tell YOU. Put this behind you.
I've got a Tiger by the tail.
- 11-07-2008 #13
- Join Date
- Jan 2008
- The Motherlode
Don't ask your girlfriend those silly questions. You put them on the spot. Is about as silly as a woman asking her boyfriend if she is fat. Some of you guys are on the large side shame on you! You should be developing confidence by now. Then I wonder if im small sometimes to
For I will restore health unto thee and I will heal thee of thine wounds, saith the Lord Jeremiah 30:17
- 11-07-2008 #14
- 11-22-2008 #15
pump, put on a cock ring and pound it.
you should not ask questions you might not like the answers to.
I am sure you have girls that say you were the biggest they have had.
so don't worry about it
- 11-22-2008 #16
This is just the sort of thing that is going to gnaw away at any insecurities you may have on the issue. Don't even go there.
No good can come out of that conversation, definitely.
You've made the right decision now to move on and put it behind you. Forget about it. It obviously doesn't matter that much to her.
An ex of mine from high school was convinced I was 8" when I was probably BP 6.75" at the time.
Last edited by Heat89; 11-22-2008 at 03:52 AM.
- 07-18-2009 #17
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- Jun 2009
First-time poster, just had to chime in because I know how this can feel.
----WHY YOU SHOULD NOT WANT A 7.4 INCH GIRTH----
Saiyan, and the rest of you, let's be realistic here, would you honestly want a 7.4 inch girth? First of all, I doubt he was 7.4 in girth or close to it, but I will get to that point next. Saiyan, if you havent done so yet, measure a piece of paper to 7.4 inches, roll it up, and look at the girth. Your girl couldn't even do oral on him. Also, if he was that big, and a drug addict, don't you think he'd be into porn? You'd have most likely watched his videos 100 times. I recently over-pumped my cock to about 7. My partner was freaked out and of course uch of this was fluid build up which brings me to my next point. The amount of blood required to fill a 7.4 inch girth at an average length would mean that again "if" he were that thick he probably never got it very hard. My partner HATED having sex with me then, we stopped after about 2 minutes and she just said, no it's thick, but its weird because its softer, it feels gross and it hurts (i never pumped up that much again). Another point, how many pornstars who have been fucked by thousands of men use a 7.4 inch girth dildo to pleasure themselves at home? I guarantee its very few if any. They will use something probably above average in girth, but not a baseball bat! Do you really think that a 7.4inch girth fully hard is pleasurable for a woman vs. a 6-6.5 girth. Even 6-6.5 can be painful for most women. Im very close to 6 in girth, sometimes 6. Ive been with my partner for many years, but we recently had a short break up and I was with a much tighter girl. I HATED IT. I always dreamed of it and imagined that it would be so great, but it wasn't. It was TOO tight. Anyways my point is that girth is of course a good thing, but, I would only be worried if you find your partner using things to pleasure herself that have similar size to 7.4 inches. Could you see her using a baseball bat thickness dildo? This would mean shes a true size queen, but the truth is most women cant handle and dont want that much girth.
---WHY HE PROBABLY WASNT THAT THICK---
You say your partner would measure with her hand and there would be roughly a 1 inch gap between her middle finger. Try grasping your erect penis from different angles "over-hand grip, under-hand grip, side-grip), you will find that at certain angles your hand will be spread more than others. Personally, if I ask my feminine counterpart to show me an inch between her thumb and and middle finger, the results are somewhat laughable, usually about 1cm to a half inch of space in between her fingers. She has NO IDEA what an inch is. I recently tested this be asking her how far a building was that was right next to a football field. She didn't realize the field was there. She said, I would say thats about 800 feet away. When I knew it was simply the length of a football field away (about 300 feet). Many people, especially women, have a very poor ability to measure by sight. My partner was with someone else, she said his penis was longer than my 6.75nbel---- she said it was longer by about 50 percent. A 10.2 INCHER??? I WAS SHOCKED AT FIRST. I asked her to show me how much with her hands, she showed me my length in between her two hands, which was not accurate, and then his length, she spread her hands to about 12 inches apart. About twice the length of what she showed me that mine was. Then i asked her to show me 3 inches in between her two fingers. It was 1 inch gap. My point being, she had no idea how to show me how big he was. Shes only been with two men in her life. Me and him. Now Saiyan, look at the statistics, Mr. Average - The true story about penis size, from a site that isn't trying to sell you anything. --- had she been with these 300 men, not one of them had a 7.4 inch girth. What are the odds that this guy had a 7.4 inch girth. In other words, what are the odds, that your partner having been with way less than 300 men, found a guy with a 7.4 inch girth. Slim to none. Do you realize, that porn companies screen thousands upon thousands of men every year, and cant find a man with a girth thicker than shane diesel? Do you really believe that one of the 10, or 50, or whatever number of men that your partner has been with is the crown jewel? GUESS WHAT, HES NOT. He wasnt that thick, period. Sure we have "going411by7" here, who is close to 7 or 7, but this is PEgym Forum! "11by7" has spent years upon years of discipline, which that "druggy" wouldnt have, to reach such a girth. Also, if your partner has gained as little as 5 pounds since shes been with him, this could throw her forearm girth off as much as half an inch. If shes gained more weight than that, her forearm is probably much much thicker than it was in the past. Also, I DOUBT THEY MEASURED HER FOREARM. They probably just compared, and from one view or the other, his penis may have been as wide as her forearm. I HIGHLY DOUBT THEY MEASURED CIRCUMFERENCE. But then again, if they did, i bet her forearm got fatter.
Beisdes, youre longer than he was right? So youve touched her in places he never could. Youve been where he never was
- 07-18-2009 #18
Dude, don't worry about it, especially since she says you're better in bed. If it makes you feel any better, I'm only 6.25" NBPEL, 5.25" base girth, and my girlfriend's ex had a thick, eight-inch penis. She says I'm a much better lover, and she feels very tight and lubed when I'm inside her. She couldn't orgasm with her ex because he didn't know how to be affectionate. Also, a big dick is just a tool. If you don't know how to move it properly, and you're not sensitive to her needs, it's useless.
Having said that, if I had an eight inch dick with a 6 inch girth, knowing what I know and being who I am, I would be unstoppable! But be happy with where you're at now and concentrate on meeting her needs in bed.
- 07-18-2009 #19
- 07-18-2009 #20
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- Jul 2009
Want to ditto what sheet said.
Also as only 1or 2% of men are over 8"bpel, if your girl starts telling you she has had 8 partners lifetime and 4 were over 8", you know she is full of it. Someone else can do the math, but basically it is impossible.