[RIB2211]

So I hooked up with a girl the other night (just oral). Anyway, the whole time, I am sporting a roughly 80% erection, but this is with a good amount of alcohol in me. So my lack of a 100% erection I placed on this.

However, today now that I'm sitting here thinking about it, I can not recall a single instance in which I had a 100% erection during sexual contact; I seemingly only get them when I masturbate/edge. I think it has got to be something psychological, but I can't figure it out. I know kegals work because my EQ has improved, but again, I only see this improvements when edging or something. It's so weird...

Also, on a more serious "I am freaking out right now" note, I also went down on her. If I wasn't drunk, that would have never happened because she is known to have gotten around. I want to go get tested because, well, I don't want herpes (for all I know she could be clean, but I want to be safe). I drove around for about 2 hours today trying to find a free clinic or something, but none can be found...I thought getting tested was supposed to be easier nowadays!

[pluto]

The erection thing is indeed pychological i think. Most of us are use to "turning ourselves on" with porn or naughty thoughts in order to exercise. The actual act of sex is much different. Most of the time I am waiting for that other person to do something or say something to turn me on. If that thing done or said is not familiar enough, it tends to be not as effective, or worse, a turn off. I too rarely experience a 100% erection during sex. I DO however have them BEFORE I have sex. Mostly because I am excited and fantasizing in anticipation.

And about the clinic, pick up a phone directory. Clinics are a plenty in city areas.

[RIB2211]

hrmm...guess its time to detox on porn then I suppose. I've tried before, so here's to hoping I can get over it this time.

[kingpole]

Perhaps it was the beer!!!!!

[W.M.P.]

Originally Posted by RIB2211

hrmm...guess its time to detox on porn then I suppose.

Yup! You better believe it. I had the very same problem a couple of months ago, and it was the result of using porn to do PE and masturbate. At first I was having unbelievable jelquing sessions with the porn, but then of course it started getting old with watching the same stuff over and over. So not only did my PE sessions start suffering a bit, but since I had gotten my mind so used to the stimuli of porn, when my girl would come over for some nook, I wouldn't get the best erections. Once I cut off the porn and started tapping on memories of me and my girl in bed (or fantasizing about/visualizing future occasions with her) then the problem was nto only fixed, but as a result of using her as my muse for my PE sessions, I've been getting unreal erections when she comes by for a pounding. Last time she came for some lovin', I had to really work the condom down the shaft cause my erection was so full and hard that the condom was being stretched to the max.

[RIB2211]

Thanks for the advice WMP, but it looks like I won't be getting any for a long time now...I recently (yesterday) came down with what feels like the flu...an early indicator of herpes. The only thing that is saving me right now from fully believing that I have herpes is that my groin lymph nodes aren't swollen...

damnit