After coming to these forums I have found many of my problems have been caused by SPA. I found one easy way to confront that was to have a frank candid conversation with the wife about expectations. It turns out hers aren't high. Lucky me.
I think a lot of it stemmed from listening to my friends talk about sexual encounters, or comments they often make in passing. I wasn't as sexually active as they were, but I had sex. Nothing I'd ever terribly brag about. However whenever they opened their mouths it always stemmed from either how long they lasted in bed, or how many orgasms they give their wife.
I have never heard one mention ED, premature ejaculation or size insecurities.
So, how full of BS are guys typically? Is it safe for me to assume they have all had some kind penile issues in the past?