Keys to Picking up WOmen

[baybabe]

Originally Posted by MrBigDick

I've learned from my experiences that just being yourself is key. If you obssess on all the games and over analyze all the hype about how to meet women and how to approach women, you'll drive yourself freakin' bonkers. Just be yourself. If she likes you, she'll respond well, if she doesn't, then she'll tell you by shooting you down and walking away. It might not necessarily be you personally, you may have just picked out a woman that has alot of issues in her life at the moment and might not be interested in meeting a guy. Just be yourself and if she wants to go out with you, she will. If she doesn't, simply move on to the next. There's too many women in this world to get all worked up over one that dissed you or shot you down.

On the "Games" note... your right its no good to stress over what games you think the other person is playing because you will play games back even if you dont realize it. I thought my boyfriend was playing the "Hard to get" game by playing with power, in other words I saw his "Blazay" attitude (and the fact that he's not jealous at all) as a game. So I withheld my availability sometimes, I didnt want him to have all the power because it would seem that I was too into him. What I mean by power is...when he chooses to be with me, I didnt want to always be available because it would be too easy and he would be the "Ruler" of the relationship. This relationship is definitely the first relationship that ever made me feel as if I needed to have power over some of it. Maybe its because I feel hurt a little when he doesnt seem into me even though he totally is...he's just more interested in fishing & motorcycles sometimes. I'm normally copacetic about things in general easy going but theres something about his demeanor. So anyway I've decided to love the relationship for what it is until it isnt working for me but, I'm NOT going to bring up the issue again because I clearly got nowhere he is what he is I'm gonna take it for now and maybe leave it later...at least I'm get laid.
Hey whats the title of this thread anyway? lol I'm off topic oops.

[kingpole]

Originally Posted by baybabe

Currently I am being ignored lol so...NO I dont like it. Ok so were talking about a brand new situation "Picking up on a women". In the first few moments its make or break. A man approaching me cant appear too desperate but they cant be too "whatever Im too good for you" either. For instance...this guy was working at a construction site (he was a boss of some sort) he was very attractive super tall with bright blue eyes and a nice build in fact the other girl I work with called me before I got there and said "HURRY UP you gotta see this hot dude". So as soon as I get there I start working and not gawking at all, he comes over immediately and starts random conversations about nothing really. I liked that he came over and talked to me, it was assertive. Then he comes over and tells me that he's going to get lunch where is a good place to get food etc. He comes back from lunch with food and a drink for me, it was nice but overboard. Long story short...the guy was talking about me to the ladies in the office and visiting me every day until the job was done, he said good bye and then he left town. He NEVER asked for my number or asked me out to dinner wtf? Did he chicken out? Was he married? What the hell? I'll never understand a mans method for picking up women.

Did he leave you a phone #?

[baybabe]

Originally Posted by kingpole

Did he leave you a phone #?

No. Thats weird I think. Maybe he figured that if I wanted to contact him I would call the company he worked for? I really dont know. I either get the over eager guys "Can I get your number, well can I give you mine then?" or the guys that do everything but complete the mission.

[wantmoreinches]

ok so this is not the key to picking up all women but there s no sure fire way 2 pick up all women but this is actually some good tips 2 picking up chicks in general it plays with there heads in a good way and separates u from the croud of guys hitting on them. sometimes people on this forum like to hate on things to quickly , there is some very good and very valid advice i am not saying its all good tho some is crap lol

[Pegasus]

Wouldn't it be great if we could all stop playing games and just reach out to one another?
Never happen I know, but what direction do you in the smallest way want to move the world?

[HotRod]

Originally Posted by baybabe

YES YES YES!!!!!! This is SUPER HUGE!!
Everything else on the list...forget you EVER read it! This guy is leading you in the wrong direction, you have to be SUPER DUPER good looking to pull off acting like a completely self centered jerk-off.

This is interesting. I've actually experimented quite a bit with this. It seems to make women very uncomfortable. They look away quickly, or turn their nose up.

I'm not a bad looking guy either, so I don't get what I'm doing wrong. They sure don't smile back.

[Rasputine]

How to pick up women
1)Make sure your warmed up properly(don't want to pull anything-oooh my Hammies and backy)
2)Distribute the weight evenly
3)Make sure you lift properly(use legs instead off all back)
4) If your on the older.start with the really light ones
50Make sure you wear non slip shoes!(This is very important)
6)Always walk on even ground.(avoid potholes at all costs)
7) Never walk in the dark
8)If all else fails have her pick you up

[HotRod]

Originally Posted by baybabe

On the "Games" note... your right its no good to stress over what games you think the other person is playing because you will play games back even if you dont realize it. I thought my boyfriend was playing the "Hard to get" game by playing with power, in other words I saw his "Blazay" attitude (and the fact that he's not jealous at all) as a game. So I withheld my availability sometimes, I didnt want him to have all the power because it would seem that I was too into him. What I mean by power is...when he chooses to be with me, I didnt want to always be available because it would be too easy and he would be the "Ruler" of the relationship. This relationship is definitely the first relationship that ever made me feel as if I needed to have power over some of it. Maybe its because I feel hurt a little when he doesnt seem into me even though he totally is...he's just more interested in fishing & motorcycles sometimes. I'm normally copacetic about things in general easy going but theres something about his demeanor. So anyway I've decided to love the relationship for what it is until it isnt working for me but, I'm NOT going to bring up the issue again because I clearly got nowhere he is what he is I'm gonna take it for now and maybe leave it later...at least I'm get laid.
Hey whats the title of this thread anyway? lol I'm off topic oops.

I think you should let him read this post.

I'm glad I'm not him.

[baybabe]

Originally Posted by HotRod

I think you should let him read this post.

I'm glad I'm not him.

Everything said in that post has been disclosed to him. Its all been worked out AND I'm curious why you think what I said was so terrible. Since then he has told me that ALL the other girl he dated have had the same problem with him BUT, I am the only one who has been so relaxed about it. We have moved past the games and and playing for keeps now, its all good.
Im glad your not him either ...and thanks

[JonPop]

Originally Posted by rasputine

how to pick up women
1)make sure your warmed up properly(don't want to pull anything-oooh my hammies and backy)
2)distribute the weight evenly
3)make sure you lift properly(use legs instead off all back)
4) if your on the older.start with the really light ones
50make sure you wear non slip shoes!(this is very important)
6)always walk on even ground.(avoid potholes at all costs)
7) never walk in the dark
8)if all else fails have her pick you up

Funny Rasp.