[happy_accidents3]

well porn is a business and they aim to give the people what they want. If people want the dirtier and more violent or risky sex thats what their going to provide. Personally I'm not turned on by any videos in which the actors don't look like their enjoying it. Personaly I find the porn industry very interesting. I mean having sex and getting paid for it sounds great but it is a very different world for the individuals who participate and each one has their own motivations. There are some who hate their work and some who enjoy it very much just like any job. I think porn is something that if you use it you must understand the fantasy of it and not get wrapped up into it. This can lead to dangerous fetishs, misconceptions about sex and love, and even addiction.

[baybabe]

Good points. Ok so then what are we saying is most damaging or misconceiving about watching porn, blurring the lines of personal relationships and porn.

[MrBigDick]

I think it's most damaging when it becomes an addiction. Look at how many men out there (I'll use men being that you don't typically find any female porn addicts) call in sick to their jobs so they can stay home and watch porn literally all day. I mean, I do enjoy watching some porn but there are so many other things to do in a day. JMO.

[happy_accidents3]

I agree with that the addiction element is very dangerous. Such an addiction can ruin relationships. I think another aspect is potential ED, on this site we have seen people who come asking for help because they have trouble getting erections without porn. Another this is misinformation about sex from a health and a skill point of view.

Many people try the things they see in porn cause they think it will be great but in reality many of the things they do are for the scene not for pleasure.
There are people who think they can perform oral sex like it is portrayed in the movies and are confused when their partners are not satisfied or are hurt by their actions. Another big one would be anal sex, in most movies they just stick it in and start pumping away with only spit as lube. Some people don't realize that the stars have prep before they do these scenes.

There are tons of things about porn one can talk about. Its such a large business, just like the real movie business there are companies that take it seriously and are concerned about the health of their actors and the quality of their product but there are some that just use porn as a meat factory. Throwing people and their health into the grinder and spitting them out with nothing.

[baybabe]

Originally Posted by happy_accidents3

I agree with that the addiction element is very dangerous. Such an addiction can ruin relationships. I think another aspect is potential ED, on this site we have seen people who come asking for help because they have trouble getting erections without porn. Another this is misinformation about sex from a health and a skill point of view.

Many people try the things they see in porn cause they think it will be great but in reality many of the things they do are for the scene not for pleasure.
There are people who think they can perform oral sex like it is portrayed in the movies and are confused when their partners are not satisfied or are hurt by their actions. Another big one would be anal sex, in most movies they just stick it in and start pumping away with only spit as lube. Some people don't realize that the stars have prep before they do these scenes.

There are tons of things about porn one can talk about. Its such a large business, just like the real movie business there are companies that take it seriously and are concerned about the health of their actors and the quality of their product but there are some that just use porn as a meat factory. Throwing people and their health into the grinder and spitting them out with nothing.

Very good, very interesting. Thank you for your input...feel free to add to the list, I'm intrigued.

[kingpole]

Originally Posted by baybabe

So true. I watched a porn...the one I described in another thread where the girl is trying to give head to a big guy, she was almost throwing up LMAO. Anyway I was actually a little disgusted while watching because they girl was "ACTING" like she liked it BUT she was doing a terribly rookie job at it. She looked like she was hating every minute and you could see her (if you watched close) positioning herself so he couldnt get it all the way, putting her hands down between them etc. it was no good. To me it was borderline rape...if she didnt keep saying yeah give it to me lol she didnt mean it AT ALL. Its actually pretty animalistic that us humans cant help get turned on when watching it...naughty

That is so gaggy, ive seen flicks like this, i would feel like i was torturing her if she did not like it. It is not manly to torture a woman in this way.

[baybabe]

Originally Posted by kingpole

That is so gaggy, ive seen flicks like this, i would feel like i was torturing her if she did not like it. It is not manly to torture a woman in this way.

Yeah it was one of those "young girl" fetish films gross. You know sometimes they say "Teen" but its more like a twenty-something, they just use the teen verbiage to grab viewers.

[kingpole]

Originally Posted by baybabe

Yeah it was one of those "young girl" fetish films gross. You know sometimes they say "Teen" but its more like a twenty-something, they just use the teen verbiage to grab viewers.

That bothers me when they use the term "teen" like they are trying to attract want to be pedifiles or something. I personally don't watch anything that says "Teen" in it. I rather watch goats screw.

[baybabe]

Originally Posted by kingpole

That bothers me when they use the term "teen" like they are trying to attract want to be pedifiles or something. I personally don't watch anything that says "Teen" in it. I rather watch goats screw.

Thats endearing

[MrBigDick]

Originally Posted by kingpole

That is so gaggy, ive seen flicks like this, i would feel like i was torturing her if she did not like it. It is not manly to torture a woman in this way.

But you'd be surprised by how many men think it is manly to do just that. Personally, if my girl isn't enjoying it, I can't enjoy it. Bottom line.

And where anal sex in porns go, I've never just seen a guy willy nilly shove it in some chicks ass and start pounding away. That hole is extremely tight and takes alot of patience and lube to get it in there.