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Originally Posted by Heraldo

i am 5 inches in length with a full, rock hard erection.

i am not sure about the girth. what is a good way to measure that?

thanks,
Heraldo

Using a tape measure is your best bet. If you don't have one, use a piece of string and measure it with a ruler.

But seriously bro, I get you. Things are looking up for me (and my sexlife in particular) nowadays, but when I started out, I couldn't even get it up because I was to nervous of being awkward, silly or plain bad between the sheets. I struggled with this for quite a while. I was always worrying about something. Anything. But mainly my ED.

Lately I've been having great sex though, rarely have any problems, my girl enjoys it. All good. How I did it? I stopped worrying. It wasn't easy, but it's what I did, and it helped. Tremendously. So what if you screw up once? There's always next time. And I'm only 19, so I have PLENTY of time left to sort things out.

Back then, any time I wasn't able to get it up, I'd just be pissed off and most of all worried that exactly the same thing would happen again next time. When we went at it again, all I had on my mind was how on earth it was possible that I did get an erection from looking at a computer screen with tits on it, but I couldn't get one while I was getting a blowjob.
Then, at one point, I realized that it was all in my head. I didn't have ED, I didn't have a problem, I didn't need to keep a shoe box full of viagra under my bed. I needed to stop worrying. And that's what I did. I stopped worrying. Yeah so what if she would be blowing my flaccid? It still felt good And then, after that moment, things just went uphill from there.

Look, I know you may not have the same problem as me, but what I'm trying to say here is: STOP WORRYING. Your ex-girlfriend said you did good in bed. It doesn't matter if there may or may not be some man out there that may or may not be able to do it better then you. What matters is that she was enjoying what you were doing. That's great! And so what if you don't get it right the first time with a new girl. Give it some time. Experiment. And soon enough you'll know just how to get her off, and you won't even know what you were worrying about.

I don't mean to sound like Dr. Phil, but just keep your head up, stay positive, and you're gonna be okay