afraid to hax sex?

Heraldo · 2 Weeks Ago

i myself am afraid to have sex. i have no self confidence! i have such little confidence in my penis that i can't even get it up, and i am afraid to have sex with anyone.

who here relates to this? (i am sure there are a few of you), and what are your thoughts?

Pegasus · 2 Weeks Ago

These are common issues H to one extent or another. While we all support one another in the end you have to find strength within and it can be a hard road.

EQKing · 2 Weeks Ago

I can relate with you on this issue .... I used to think like this way back in 2002 - 2004. I was not confident with my pecker and that's why i ended up searching the net for information on how to increase penis size. Well it still is sort of an issue right now but not the sex part. I can have sex like a horse!!!! But i still need to increase my unit by at least 2" length and an 1" girth!!!!

EQKing · 2 Weeks Ago

Oh i forgot to mention. "BEST OF LUCK TO YOU"

MrBigDick · 2 Weeks Ago

I can relate to this because back when my marriage ended in 2003, I suddenly realized that my "comfort" zone if you will had just been bust and I was now allowed to go out, date who I wanted and have sex with whom I wanted. After 17 years with the same girl, the thought of going out into the world and starting the dating and sex process with other women terrified me. I didn't have the confidence it took to go out, meet and talk with woman and "hook up". Instead, I dedicated 4 years of my life to raising my kids and getting them through the dark years following my divorce. It's important to note that shortly after my marriage ended, I investigated, found out about and implemented a PE regimen because I wanted a BIG DICK! I didn't need to be hung like John Holmes but I wanted to be more substantially hung for any future women that I might bed.

Fast forwad to 2008 and I realized that I could no longer continue to live in this manner. My children were doing excellent and were well adjusted from my divorce from their mother so it was now time for me to get on the old proverbial horse and ride again. So, I begain internet dating, so forth and so on. I knew I had alot to offer the right woman and that I was ready to be involved with women once again. It's important that in all this time, my self esteem and confidence level were also being worked on and undergoing massive overhaul. By this point, I was emotionally well, physically fit, been doing PE for a good 5 years and I was READY!

I then met my current gf who was patient, gentle and genuinely loving and we've been having the best sex ever since we met.

Don't feel bad about what your going through. Everyone of us has been there bro. You've got plenty of guys here willing to help and offer advice.

JonPop · 1 Week Ago

MBD. You've come a loooong way buddy. As your friend, I couldn't be happier for you.
If you remember, I was there with you on this journey. Best to ya.

LookAlive · 1 Week Ago

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Originally Posted by MrBigDick

I can relate to this because back when my marriage ended in 2003, I suddenly realized that my "comfort" zone if you will had just been bust and I was now allowed to go out, date who I wanted and have sex with whom I wanted. After 17 years with the same girl, the thought of going out into the world and starting the dating and sex process with other women terrified me. I didn't have the confidence it took to go out, meet and talk with woman and "hook up". Instead, I dedicated 4 years of my life to raising my kids and getting them through the dark years following my divorce. It's important to note that shortly after my marriage ended, I investigated, found out about and implemented a PE regimen because I wanted a BIG DICK! I didn't need to be hung like John Holmes but I wanted to be more substantially hung for any future women that I might bed.

Fast forwad to 2008 and I realized that I could no longer continuing to live in this manner. My children were doing excellent and were well adjusted from my divorce from their mother so it was now time for me to get on the old proverbial horse and ride again. So, I begain internet dating, so forth and so on. I knew I had alot to offer the right woman and that I was ready to be involved with women once again. It's important that in all this time, my self esteem and confidence level were also being worked on and undergoing massive overhaul. By this point, I was emotionally well, physically fit, been doing PE for a good 5 years and I was READY!

I then met my current gf who was patient, gentle and genuinely loving and we've been having the best sex ever since we met.

Don't feel bad about what your going through. Everyone of us has been there bro. You've got plenty of guys here willing to help and offer advice.

That's a really nice story! I'm really happy you've found a nice girlfriend!

MrBigDick · 1 Week Ago

Thanks LookAlive and you too JP. JP, if anyone knows my story better than me it's you. I paid my dues, got through a tough period in my life and now I feel as though I'm top of the world. I have healthy and happy kids, a great job, a phenomenal, hot, sexy and extremely HORNY girlfriend, a great social network of family and great friends...........I'm a lucky mofo! BUT, it took me YEARS to get to this stage.....it didn't happen overnight.

Big Al · 1 Week Ago

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Originally Posted by Heraldo

i myself am afraid to have sex. i have no self confidence! i have such little confidence in my penis that i can't even get it up, and i am afraid to have sex with anyone.

who here relates to this? (i am sure there are a few of you), and what are your thoughts?

Is there a particular situation that caused you to feel this way? Have you looked into doing anything to address the psychological aspect of your issue? Doing PE can help you get a bigger penis, but if there's something deeper that's causing your feelings you'll need to get that resolved in order to be truly comfortable with yourself.

vegetarian · 1 Week Ago

Dude, you and your penis were made for having sex! Mother nature wants you to have sex!

Take it step by step. Get a girlfriend. Get REALLY intimate with her. Kiss her a lot. Kiss her hands. Kiss her forehead. Play with her hair. Touch her (non-sexually) a lot. Get comfortable with her. This takes time but sex will come naturally this way.

If you feel you're skinny, go to the gym. If you think you have a small penis do some penis enlargement exercises. Know that you can constantly change and improve yourself.

What are you afraid of?