[MrBigDick]

OK, here goes just one teensy weensy vent I'm going to do about my ex. I know I shouldn't but this one seriously chaps my hide. OK, my oldest daughter is 11. She has 1 pair of shoes that she's been wearing now for God knows how long and these shoes are looking shabby as all hell. I call her mother to ask when she's getting our kid another pair and she told me that she's been trying to get her to buy another pair for the past 2 months and she just won't get another one and that she's simply at a loss as to what to do.

My first thought was "gee, who's the parent here? You or her??" It's very important to understand that I pay this woman AMPLE child support per month...............the state of CA makes damn sure of that. Sooooooo, I took our daughter out and found her a new pair of shoes and since they were on sale, we had money left over to get some frozen yogurt afterwards. I swear this woman does this shit on purpose! This sort of thing is what child support is intended to cover and yet I often find myself buying things that I shouldn't have to because my kids need this or that and she's too lazy letting my kids rule the roost. Unbelievable.........

[shane_syndrome]

No , child support goes to buying your x wife a blue ray player and that plasma t.v in her living room not your actual child lol.

thinking about that pissed me off living with my mom and step dad we had lots of money and my dad paid chiled support to , i probably ate pizza at least every other day because my mom hated cooking and my food on the day i didn't have pizza was pizza pops haha ... buy the time i was 16 i was buying my own food and my mom said i shower to much so i even showered at the gym every morning before school (i worked out before school anyway)) and my grand parents on my dads side even paid for all my cloths ... now that i think about it i have no clue where my child support went to.