Down in the dumps over lack of size...

[desperate1]

Hey guys, my whole life is down in the dumps and it stems from having a small dick. Not sure where to begin really, first off I am nearly 7 feet tall but my dick is just over 4" fully erect NBP. With my height, it makes the 4" look like 2", while they are expecting a lot more from someone my height. I haven't had a relationship in years, and I won't be unless I can at least get my dick to 5"...it is a cruel fate to be tall but small as chicks do go for tall guys, but I avoid them alltogether these days. I have a very empty and lonely life because of this, it's lead me to substance abuse, and I've lost all motivation to do anything but get wasted every night. I guess I'm extremely depressed about not having someone in my life, and have pretty much given up on life because of it. I guess PE is my only hope now, and am planning to start the jp90 today...but I have to admit, I have not stuck to anything productive for 90 days in a long, long time. I really have nothing to live for as things are, hoping that PE works for me...but I have such a negative outlook on everything these days I can see myself being one of the hard or non gainers.

Wish me luck...

[4Samson]

Welcome. With effort and commitment you can reach your goals. There is a wealth of imformation and knowledgable people on this site to help you along your way.

[second lensman]

Ditto Samson's message desperate one. You've come to the right place, now it's time to commit yourself to a new drugfree, healthy, happy existence full of love and friendship. There are several people here that will join with me and wish you the very best of luck and remember you will be successful and you are among friends.

[schlittle]

Hello Desperate, welcome!

Again i echo what the other guys have said, commitment is the key: if you never give up and persist persist persist then over time you could get excellent results.

And you say your "non bone pressed measurement" (NBP) is 4 inches, what is your "bone pressed erect length measurement"? (BPEL is when you press the ruler into your fat pad until it touches your pubic bone and that way you get your bpel)

[GymBoi4eva]

Welcome to the gym bro.... PE will change your life IF you are willing to put in the work. Like everything good in life, you need to fight for it and work hard to get it.

You CAN do it if you put your mind to it..

Good luck.

[TheSperminator]

Welcome to the gym!!

1. Life isn't about having a big dick.
2. Not communicating with women because of not having a huge dick is plain stupid.
3. Start to work! and don't give up untill you reach your goal! Make something of your life. Be a man for christ sake and just do it! Stop the self pity. No really dude, get yourself together and start improving yourself. PE is a good way to improve yourself. Learn other things as well, have a passion, have something to live for. There's got to be something!! BUT FIRST, start to read about the JP90's!! JP's 90 Day Beginner Routine have fun mate

Best of luck!!!

[BTBrian]

Get your shit together man!! First of all, you can reach your goals and allow PE to change your life but you must be willing to work. Second, do NOT let penis size stop you from finding a girl! If you find a girl that likes you she will not care about what your penis looks like. Third, stop getting wasted every night! Get rid of all your alcohol and drugs, you'll never make any progress in PE or in life if you can't control your bad habits. Good luck to you, I can't wait to read your success story about how PE changed your life a few years from now.

[BabyDick]

Good luck man....Your mind is your own worst enemy. I deal with that stuff and I'm on the larger side of average. Even ruined relationships thinking about it so much. It's really about confidence which is easy to say but harder to do when you're feeling that way. If you stick around here I'm sure you'll start to feel better. Seems to be some great support.

[BabyDick]

Feel free to send me a private message and we can talk about your substance abuse....I battled through a lot of that

[desperate1]

Thanks for the warm welcome guys, it really lifted my spirits...enough so that I passed on the spirits last night and did my day 1 of jp90. I will be doing 2 on 1 off...plus a few stretches in the morning shower (jp90 in evening).

I couldn't figure out how to do the v-jelqs, frankly I think my flaccid length is too short for them...so I just did more regular jelqs.

Schlittle I have quite a thick fat pad...I forget exactly but between an inch to inch and half...so my bpel is between 5-5.5"...that does sound a lot better than 4", but I have a hard time counting the inch and change that can't be seen.

BabyDick thanks for the kind offer...