So. Kind of long story but I'll shorten it as much as possible. Me and my GF have been together for two years. She thinks I'm the hottest guy to her and stuff but our sex life has grown dull. I want it all the time but the only time I get it is when she's either sleeping or tired and she always tries to rush it. She doesn't really like sex all that much but she has this "toy" that she gets off on and the way she orgasms is intense. And it makes me jealous. I think that I'm small but she says it hurts. But a hurt like being stabbed inside. She's damn near impossible to get to to climax unless she does it herself. I've never had any issue before with anyone else. But from what I've observed, it seems I lack GIRTH. Its as if I'm too narrow and I'm not "pressing" the sensitive walls to make her reach her point. And I feel if I was actually able to gain that girth, she would want it more. It would improve our sex llife. I mean there is another hindrance but that's meds related as she's taking Selexa for depression. But I really believe that girth over length is the key. I need help!!! I wanna please her better than any device or her own self. Where do I start? Exercises? Should I add a pump to my regiment? At full erection I am at 6 inches in length and about 5 and 3/4 inches in circumference. Non is 3 and a 1/4 length and 4 inches in circumference.