Looking to bring our sex life back.

[pedrobear69]

So. Kind of long story but I'll shorten it as much as possible. Me and my GF have been together for two years. She thinks I'm the hottest guy to her and stuff but our sex life has grown dull. I want it all the time but the only time I get it is when she's either sleeping or tired and she always tries to rush it. She doesn't really like sex all that much but she has this "toy" that she gets off on and the way she orgasms is intense. And it makes me jealous. I think that I'm small but she says it hurts. But a hurt like being stabbed inside. She's damn near impossible to get to to climax unless she does it herself. I've never had any issue before with anyone else. But from what I've observed, it seems I lack GIRTH. Its as if I'm too narrow and I'm not "pressing" the sensitive walls to make her reach her point. And I feel if I was actually able to gain that girth, she would want it more. It would improve our sex llife. I mean there is another hindrance but that's meds related as she's taking Selexa for depression. But I really believe that girth over length is the key. I need help!!! I wanna please her better than any device or her own self. Where do I start? Exercises? Should I add a pump to my regiment? At full erection I am at 6 inches in length and about 5 and 3/4 inches in circumference. Non is 3 and a 1/4 length and 4 inches in circumference.

[pedrobear69]

I've attached a photo as well. Can it happen or am I stuck like so many reviews and other people on the internet say?

[Dontrike]

Have you talked to her at all about this? It isn't just you that has to try during sex.

[2009vettez51]

sounds like you have plenty down there

[pedrobear69]

I've brought it up and she doesn't really give much of a response exept that she has mentioned that she would prefer girth over length. I remember I had a similar situation with an ex who was a little difficult but the very second I gave her a "thicker" toy, she climaxed immediately within' the first minute. I think its a confidence thing as well. Just being able to look and see thickness would give me a more comfortable and confident outlook. Girth is my goal. How does the measuring system work here? I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. I ended up using a tailor's tape measure and wrapped around to get the circumference.

[pedrobear69]

Are there any pumps that work well with exercises?

[Steve23]

Most pumps work fine with PE, check out the devices forum on this site or seach and there's a lot of info on pumps and exercises to do with pumps, and seeing how you're a beginner check out the jp90 routine. You can add pumping to it later too.

[hihopes1286]

You have a great girth. And good length. I wish I had your girth. Welcome to the gym. You could always try a vibrating cock ring to help stimulqte her. Never tried one but always wondered if it would make it more pleasurable for her. But it definitely would make it more like a toy. Good luck on your journey.

[DarkSide]

You have a great girth. And good length. I wish I had your girth. Welcome to the gym. You could always try a vibrating cock ring to help stimulqte her. .

I call this the "insta-gasm ring" with my Wife haha... It's like 30 seconds and she is done, She is on top when I wear one, and they are relatively cheap too.

OP... 5 3/4 Girth is awesome! I am going to roar in delight when I hit that size!

Regards,