This is all so confusing and messed up I really don t know where to start. I started sleeping with this guy a while ago. The first time we did not have actual sex. We were both naked and he was on top if me but he never penetrated me. We were kissing and I was really into it but aver a while I realized something was wrong and it got kinda weird. I asked him if everything was ok and he everything was fine. I thought he had decided he really wasn t attracted to me after all so we goofed off a little while still in bed naked. At one point we were wrestling and he ended up back on top of me. He kissed me and I felt him enter me. He stayed there a minute (no movement) pulled back out and rolled off. I was crushed. I felt unattractive and wondered if there was something wrong with me since he was unable to get an erection at first then got in then immediately got out. I text him on the way home no answer. Called a couple of days later no answer. After 2 weeks I hear from him again. We start the what I now call the cycle. We talk and text. Always very sexy/dirty stuff. We meet up and have a very weird version of sex. Then he ignores me for days sometimes weeks. I m not sure what s going on. A few times he s had no erection at all, once he had a great one touched me, got inside me, no movement and came. I had all my hair waxed because I thought it might turn him on. He looked at it, touched it, I know he had an erection but never entered me. I have no idea what is going on and if I try to talk to him about it he completely shuts down. this last time he barely had an erection but I decided to get in top and see if I could encourage things. I got him inside me reached up took my bra off , touched my nipples and he came. No facial expression to indicate it felt nice. Nothing. I m so frustrated. This time I got so mad I told him to grow up. If there is a problem lets talk about it and work thru it. I m tired of feeling like crap, like my body isn't attractive or doesn't feel nice. He s so cold after we see each other. I don t get it. Why does he still call and text me if he s not into me? I hate it cause I am super attracted to him. I can hear his voice and I get wet. I see a text from him and I get butterflies. I love the way he smells. So guys what s the deal? Erectile dysfunction? Premature ejaculation? Asshole? Do these things we do even feel nice to him? Should I leave him alone or keep trying?