I wrote this post, how I visualise Premature/Delayed Ejaculation, how I try to control it in my head. I'm blogging it because this visualisation is crystal clear in my head, and I'd like to know if I've been able to convey it effectively, and if it makes sense to you too. And of course if not, how YOU visualise it.
If you don't visualise it at all, and you have any issues with your own control in either direction, I recommend that you start.
Little background on me and my psychology. Three years ago or so I was in a relationship that had gone badly wrong. I was a mess, and my self esteem was at rock bottom. Then I ended it. Making that decision was the beginning of an assertion to sort myself out.
Among many things, part of that was working on my attutude to myself. NLP was helpful here. Another part of that was coming here to sort out my PreE. I gave PE a go too and much to my surprise gained half an inch or so.
Y'know, the more fucking you do, with more people, the less you give a crap about the size of your penis, and the less it matters.
Why does it matter less? because you stopped caring about her opinion of it, and instead you just want her to cum. A LOT. So you learn that fucking her at the right angle will send her through the roof every time. And with that attitude, she knows this, she knows it's likely you can and will. And when she knows
I am coming to the conclusion that while Premature Ejaculation is treatable to some degree with physical awareness and prowess, that real control and "mastery" for want of a better word is entirely mental.
Consider MMO. The crux of this is separating orgasm from ejaculation. We typically do this by learning awareness and muscle control to suppress ejaculation. However on the basis of more recent exploration, I'm starting to think that the majority