Porn Reboot

[arshavin]

I sorta rebooted with porn a while ago. I wouldnt say i was fully fixed but there was some good signs. I was following the jp90 on an off at this time.

Well i relapsed and started again. It starts out as a once a week treat an it got alot more often fast!

Well i think i need to sort myself out again as i have let myself down in some sexual encounters lately. I havent watched porn in over a week and not masturbated in 5 days. My libido is null.

The problem is i completed the jp90 last week. I really want to start some more advanced stuff. Can i do PE while trying to reboot?

I swear to god porn has caused me nothing but grief!

[2009vettez51]

best thing to do is just say no, dont click those links dont even think about them. if you get sexually frustrated go take it out on a real woman!

[Dontrike]

The only thing you can do is not look at it, delete all the links, pictures, videos, or whatever else is there from your computer and just try not to look at it.

@Vette

For some guys it is a lot harder to take out their sexual frustration out on an actual woman, we can't all be lucky like you.

[grifter2420]

I haven't looked into it, but I believe there is a way to block those sites and all from your computer. Search for some sort of parental/web control from your machine as well as in the browser.

[2009vettez51]

I understand

[arshavin]

Thanks for the replies guys. Can i carry on peing whilst rebooting?

[bigmoe5067]

personally i believe you should masturbate ,but not orgasm during reboot. i dont think doing nothing and denying your sexuality is a great idea for a reboot. you want to re acclimate yourself to natural stimulation, so in turn you need stimulation to acclimate too.

drug addicts that just practice abstinence and dont focus on personal growth usually have the highest rates of relapse. same could be said for recovering your libido. abstinence might contribute to a shut down, but if you PE/masturbate with out orgasm, you start to force the issue. force the brain to re-adapt, force your dopamine sensors to readjust to natural stimulus. its all speculation but i dont see how turning your sexuality off for a significant period is the best route. if a pro football player has an ankle sprain, yeah we would let it rest for a bit, but then we would get right into strengthening it through therapy.

meditation along with PE/orgasmless masturbation in a sense are the therapy

[Edge of Glory]

I was hooked on porn pretty bad for the last few years (sometimes several hours a day), so I understand your situation. Funnily enough, I haven't watched porn in over 2 months and really don't feel a desire to.

I'll walk you through how it worked for me: I started JP 90, first only used porn to edge, and then slowly stopped and began edging porn-free.

I would say that you can definitely reboot while doing PE. In fact, I think it's good to have a PE goal to keep you focused while you're rebooting. If you feel compelled to watch porn, try a step-down approach. I.e. from hardcore/pro down to low-quality amateur ("normal people") down to erotica down to imagination. I can't tell you how much better I feel without having the burden of porn on my shoulders. I almost felt obligated to watch it.

Best of luck.

[Dance Sucka]

@Vette

For some guys it is a lot harder to take out their sexual frustration out on an actual woman, we can't all be lucky like you.

Don't even think this way, it's bad...

@ OP good luck stopping porn !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 you will !!!!11

[Koh]

But it's true... it'd be nice to have a woman around.