For some reason, for the last couple of months I've been sad about my flaccid size. On average it's around 3,5", sometimes smaller, sometimes bigger. I can get pretty discouraged when it's smaller and it fluctuates a lot during a day, usually to the smaller. For example it hangs around 2,5"-3" at work where I'm maybe not fully relaxed and wearing tighter pants (like jeans) than at home and I start thinking maybe that's my real size. At home, it can get to 4", sometimes. All this makes me unsure of what my flaccid size really is and therefor difficult to put my mind at rest. I guess 3,5" is pretty decent or average if it always stayed that way but anytime I see it at 3" or smaller I pretty much define my penis by that size until I see it bigger.
Sorry for the whining but this keeps bothering me during a day. Walking around, thinking my flaccid is small and therefor thinking my penis is small is making me miserable. What am I not getting?