Question for gay men on the forum... in your experience... whats average?

[BTBrian]

I feel like you're trying to change the average to something its not

He is, read all of his other posts. He's determined to make the average bigger than it really is.

[helpmeout]

How am I trying to change the average? How many erect dicks have you all seen out of porn? I'd guess most of you are at a count of 0. I'm asking people who actually have seen them, what they believe the average to be. We have numbers, and we have real life experiences. Neither of us came up with the numbers, and none of us have real life experiences with other guys dicks. All i'm doing is trying to ask people who actually have experienced it.

[Koh]

If most studies put generally the same size as average, why question something so trivial?

You have a good size, just keep working on it.

[TurtleProblems]

From the ones I've seen, I would say most being 5-6 in length and 4.5-5.5 in girth.

[Taurian]

All I can say is that you would do well with your size in the gay community! :-)

[helpmeout]

Thank you taurian

[jakkie]

I was not sure if I should respond to this poll or not, but I have decided to do so.

I have seen and played with many dicks.. short ones, long ones, thick ones, thin ones and any other combination of them. What is imortant to me is the personality and self confidence and manliness of the peron behind the dick.

I would guess and it is an estimate that the average NBPEL is around 5.5". But, it is not important... If you fall in love with the size of a dick you base your relationship, in my opinion as a gay man, on something that is superficial. My ex-partner died in a car-accident 10 years ago. I loved him more than anything else in this world (well equal to my son) for the wonderful, caring, sensitive, manly man he was with a great sense of humour. He was average as mentioned above, but as a person he was XXXXXL. Sadly, I have not met someone that could measure up to that important size yet.

[somebodyelse]

^ that's deep jakkie. Thanks for sharing.

[jakkie]

^ that's deep jakkie. Thanks for sharing.

No problem. Its sort of deep, which is why I did not want to post it originally. But I decided to give my opinion to maybe help people see perspective.

[helpmeout]

ThanWhen you put it like that, it makes everything just seem superficial, which it is. It doesn't matter if your gay, straight, black, white, asian, or whatever. Love is love. That's what kills me about the U.S.A. government today. The amount of homophobia that is still allowed in politics, and the discrimination gays an lesbians face because of it. As a straight man it makes me sick to my stomach to think about how "okay" it is to be homophobic in our society. Your story just proves my point. Love is love no matter who is involved, what that person's sexuality is, what they look like. And it hurts just as much when it's taken away. I'm sorry for your loss jakkie, thank you for sharing your story.